On the big stage of reality, the dance music of love is becoming more and more confusing, and every relationship is like a transaction, and there are material considerations that cannot be ignored behind it. My cousin, who is not confused, works on the construction site ordinarily and hard, but feels the pressure of modern feelings in blind dates again and again.
His story may be a microcosm of many people, but it has its own unique poignancy. 43 years old, unmarried, three days of fishing and two days of drying nets, although such a day is simple, but it has its own real taste. When he returned home last year, the people in the village began to break their hearts for him, and they all matched him with a 32-year-old divorced woman with a cute 8-year-old boy who lived in his parents' house.
The cousin agreed to go to the first place, so an ordinary blind date trip kicked off. However, underneath the ordinary, there is a series of shocks. The woman's request to him was unbelievable: to buy a house in the city and add a car worth more than 150,000 yuan, the woman's three golds were indispensable, and the monthly living expenses were as high as at least 6,000 yuan.
This blind date has become a bazaar of material transactions, and feelings seem to have become a luxury, and the ** label makes people feel pressure. My cousin came back with a displeased face, and yesterday's rush, I met him again and asked about the results of the blind date. He smiled faintly and said succinctly: "I can't afford to mess with it." When asked why, he confessed that the woman's demands were daunting: buying a house, buying a car, living expenses, all these needs made him feel as if he couldn't afford them.
This is not an isolated case, but a true portrayal of modern feelings. In this market of love, men's options seem to be limited by real life, and they need to weigh money and affection. Rich men can get the world of flowers, while those ordinary and hard-working men need to face huge challenges one after another. This is not only a test of feelings, but also a burden on society for men.
So I started to think, what makes love so complicated? What makes feelings a game of material exchange? Perhaps we need more understanding to explore the story behind each person. Perhaps, those seemingly harsh requirements may just be a line of defense set up by everyone for their own safety in the process of pursuing happiness.
In this fast-paced society, we may need to re-examine the definition of love and the true value of feelings. We need to get rid of the cumbersome material requirements and return to the original purity. Let the relationship no longer be a transaction, but a simple and sincere emotion.
May we work together to break down stereotypes and create a more understanding and inclusive society. In this process, perhaps we can redefine love and give it back its original purity. Let everyone who pursues happiness be able to find their place on the big stage of this society. Because happiness should be something that everyone has the right to pursue.
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