I thought about this question for a long time, not because I didn't know where to start, but because I was thinking about how to explain it more clearly, or more thoroughly. But whenever a problem arises, there must be a corresponding solution, and sometimes there is more than one. Take the question above, where I see the word "know".
First of all, if we only take it literally, the depth of "knowing" is too shallow, just knowledge "knowing", followed by a series of processes such as "thinking", "understanding", "action", "reflection", "answer", etc. Just at the level of "knowing", then the final presentation of the problem is certainly not as effective, and the effect brought by the deeper level below is strong and shocking.
Some people may say that even if I really understood it, I implemented it, but in the end I still failed to achieve the desired effect, and the reason is **? I think it can be said in two ways.
First, there is no sustained persistence. The development of anything is a process from quantitative change to qualitative change, and how can we see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain. As the saying goes, "It's impossible to eat a fat man in one bite", and that's what it says. Le Ying in the movie "Hot and Hot" released during the Chinese New Year this year, can it be said that the entire ** process was reduced all at once? Many people are very convinced that it is impossible and that there will be no absolute effect without absolute persistence.
The reason why everyone agrees so much about this matter is that this incident did not happen to themselves, but to others. Because the appearance of others through perseverance and hard work touches the soft area of our inner world, making us believe to a large extent what we really see, so we all have a sense of identity in it, simply put, the inner resonance, and it is exactly what we want to see.
Second, in the process of trying to carry out the work, they did not reflect on whether their actions were appropriate and whether they were on the right path. In the eyes of any successful person, if you want to achieve the results you expect, then in addition to continuous persistence, you must also reflect on yourself in a timely manner. This is where the word "decision-making" comes up, which means like choice.
Friends who often drive may have such an awareness, especially when running in a straight line at high speed, you have to turn the steering wheel from time to time to ensure that the vehicle is always in a straight line, otherwise it will deviate. That turning the steering wheel from time to time is what we call "decision-making". It's a very simple thing, but it's not simply to deal with, but to keep adjusting, constantly reflecting, and constantly refueling, so that we can keep moving forward and finally reach our destination.
Second, let's talk about the word "good" in the second half of the sentence. I don't know how everyone understands the word "good" in this life, what is its standard, and how to judge this "good", which has become a problem.
The world is full of living beings, and everyone has their own thoughts, their own will. For the standard of "good", everyone's understanding may not be the same, some people think that it is good to be well fed and clothed and not get sick, some people think that it is good to be rich and expensive, and some people think that it is good to be rich and safe, and different groups of people have different understandings and different answers to the same question. However, these are not the most important things.
The best part? Is it your own understanding of "good", whether you are happy and happy, or sad and sad; Is it the satisfaction of physical desires, or the richness of the soul. Before answering this question, you must first figure out what you really want, what your requirements are, and what the standards are, and then talk about what the final "good" looks like, otherwise it will be like a castle in the air, out of reach.
Having said so much, I don't know if you understand, let's summarize what the whole process is, first determine the direction and goal, that is, we say "good", and then start to work hard towards the goal, adjust yourself in time in the process of endeavor, do not deviate from the goal, and then continue to work hard, repeat the continuous effort - adjust the reflection - continue to work hard This process, in the end, we can achieve the results we expect, become what we want to be, and live this life.
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