I want to quit my career but don't have the courage!
The hospital career is established, and he is a male nurse. It's the fourth year of doing **, but I don't want to live a day when I can see the head.
Let's briefly analyze the pros and cons.
The advantage is that the career establishment is stable in one word, and there are no accidents, and it is easy to retire.
Now I also work in a relaxed department (psychiatric department, basically 4-5 days off and 3-4 days.
There are more breaks.
The disadvantage is also that the salary will basically not change greatly (remove the five insurances and one housing fund, about 6-7k, the provident fund is 3500 on both sides, but because the landlord is in a new first-tier city, and the family is also an ordinary rural family, there is basically little hope of buying a house with this salary.
In addition, because of the night shift, there is basically no chance to escape before the age of 45. Every eight days, there is a round of night shifts, and the body can't bear it, and the young age is already hyperuricemia (uric acid is high after the night shift.
There is also a disadvantage that the upside is basic, and the effort is a long one, and there must be a variety of connections, and ordinary small workers like me just want to be a first-class long and have no great chance, and the salary will not be much higher.
Now I am very entangled, whether to quit my job and concentrate on other industries, or continue to work. My dream is to open a private chef restaurant, and I love cooking.
If you do a side hustle while doing it, you don't feel like you have enough energy, and you don't have a lot of skills.
My girlfriend also asked to buy a house in the city before she was willing to get married, which is really difficult for this salary.
My family failed in my early years in business, and my parents didn't support me in doing anything else.
My girlfriend also urged me to buy a house and get married, but she didn't want me to be unstable after quitting my job. But I don't really know when I'll be able to save money if I continue to do this job (although I have been working for four years, our sunshine salary is 2000 a month in the first year, and the performance is 0 in the second year2. The salary is deducted from five insurances and one housing fund, which is almost 0, and the independent top shift is only 04 There can be more than 2,000 So I didn't save any money at all in the first two years. In the third year, you can take 08 salary, which is considered to have saved some money. If you want to get a full salary, you have to go through three years, and it will increase by 0 every year05。
It's really stressful, I don't know what to do.
In fact, I also tried some side hustles, but in the end they all ended without a problem, and I also delivered takeaways, so I feel that this is the only way to try again.