In today's society, people often talk about the marriage of older leftover women, one voice thinks that they are too materialistic and only pursue bride price money, while the other voice thinks that they have their own pursuits and persistence. 33-year-old ** Dan (pseudonym) is one of the typical representatives. Her story reflects on the role of money in relationships, as well as the challenges and persistence that older women face in marriage.
* Dan is from a rural area, and she has already entered the ranks of older leftover women. However, she is not the kind of woman who is in a hurry, and she is confident that her fate will come sooner or later. Despite this, her mother has been worried and nagging about her marital problems. Although Dan was reluctant to listen to her mother's arrangement, she still participated in a series of blind date activities with anticipation.
Judging from his appearance, **Dan has an outstanding appearance and has aroused the interest of the blind date. However, when it came to the bride price, she insisted on her demands. The first blind date proposed a bride price of 200,000 yuan, but she refused for various reasons. The same goes for the blind dates that followed, all of which ended in failure. In her eyes, the high bride price has become an insurmountable gap between her and the blind date.
However, when she meets a wealthy chicken farmer, Boss Xu, she makes a staggering bride price request: 3880 thousand. Boss Xu scoffed at this, thinking that her requirements were too high, and even ridiculed her as a "yellow-faced woman". This blind date ended in a fierce quarrel, **Dan left angrily, and the contradiction between mother and daughter became more and more acute.
This dispute reflects the generation gap and disagreement between **Dan and his mother. Mother thinks that Dan should accept the reality in front of him and that marrying Boss Xu is a blessing, but Dan firmly believes that she should not compromise and that she has the right to choose her own marriage. This strong-willed attitude made her not hesitate to conflict with her mother, and even chose to run away from home.
However, this is not a simple dispute. In Dan's heart, her expectations for marriage are not simple material needs, but the yearning and pursuit of happiness. The number behind the bride price is not empty money, but her affirmation and respect for her own value. She refused to compromise and held on to her inner beliefs, even if it meant contradictions and conflicts with her mother.
In today's society, money often becomes a stumbling block in relationships. Older women face many challenges, not only to deal with external pressure and blame, but also to face inner struggles and perseverance. However, it is this persistence that makes them stronger and more courageous in the face of future possibilities.
Therefore, Dan's story teaches us that no matter what kind of pressure and adversity we face, we should stick to our hearts and be brave in the pursuit of true happiness. Money is important, but what is more important is inner perseverance and courage. Perhaps, only by firmly believing in our own worth can we find the path to happiness that truly belongs to us.