Hello everyone, I'm Qin Chuan.
Each of us has only one life, what kind of person do you want to be in your own life? What do you want to accomplish? Do you have goals and dreams of your own?
If you've never thought about it, you can take a moment and think about the answer.
Some people say that real life is cruel, how is it possible for everyone to achieve their goals and dreams?
Isn't that a fantasy?
Just because you don't believe it doesn't mean it doesn't exist.
Even if you can't give up everything to chase your dreams, at least you have to live your only and true self in this one and only life.
Today, let's take a look at 4 things you can do to live your true self.
01.Don't blindly compare, keep your own pace
A life that is not compared to others is not a perfect life.
It has been said that to live is to fight for breath.
Isn't the so-called competition just comparison?
It's just that everyone has a heart for comparison, and there is no need to see it as a flood beast.
As long as the comparison between people is within a reasonable range, it is harmless, if you fall into the whirlpool of blind comparison, then the gods can't save you.
Some people do not hesitate to sacrifice their physical health in exchange for the envy and jealousy of others.
Years later, it is unknown if he will regret his actions when he was younger.
Some people blindly consume ahead of time in order to compare, and they don't know if the life of being called for debts every day makes him wake up.
Everyone has their own rhythm of life, just like a child grows, some children grow fast, some children grow slowly, and in the end, no one knows who grows taller until the end.
Our life is the same, maybe people who are on a starting line, the final outcome is to go and see, and the fastest runner may not be the first to reach the end.
Or why do we care about these things?
Life is originally to come to this world alone, and then leave alone, just keep your own rhythm of life.
02.Don't overdo it and listen to your inner voice
When we were kids, we always did things we didn't want to do in order to cater to adults.
In school, we often behave obediently in order to cater to the teachers.
work, in order to cater to the leadership, we had to fight on the wine table.
When I was single, I always wronged myself in order to cater to my friends.
When we get married, we always obey each other in order to cater to our spouses.
This kind of life is too boring, shouldn't your life please yourself first?
We do need to maintain a moderate level of politeness and boundaries in our interactions with each other.
But that doesn't mean that you have to sacrifice yourself for someone else, even if that person is your parent, spouse, or child, you can choose to stick to your own ideas.
We should take care of ourselves before we can take care of others.
If you yourself are depressed and emotionally unstable every day, how can you possibly bring positive energy to the people around you?
Of course, this does not mean that we have to become extremely selfish people.
Finding a balance between selfishness and selfishness is something we should grasp.
03.Don't be afraid of failure and do what you want to do
It's human nature to be afraid of failure, and excessive fear can hinder us from pursuing our dreams and trying new things.
Not being afraid of failure and doing what you want to do is an important step in achieving your personal goals and realizing your dreams.
Failure is not the end, but rather an opportunity to learn and grow.
Every time we fail, we can learn from it, discover our shortcomings, and look for ways to improve.
Failure is a stepping stone to success, it helps us to accumulate experience, exercise will, and develop problem-solving skills.
We need to believe in our own ability and potential to overcome difficulties, and see failure as a temporary setback rather than a sign of an end.
Learn to look for positive aspects in failure, such as discovering your potential and recognizing your own growth and progress.
The fear of failure often holds us back and misses out on many valuable opportunities.
To overcome this fear, we need to muster the courage to try new things.
04.Don't give up easily, there is always a reward for paying
Not giving up easily is a manifestation of perseverance and perseverance, which means that we are able to maintain our dedication to our goals in the face of difficulties, setbacks or the test of time, and believe that efforts always pay off.
This attitude is essential to achieving personal goals, overcoming difficulties and achieving success.
Not giving up easily means that we have strong beliefs and goals.
When we have a clear understanding of our goals and are convinced of them, we are able to face difficulties and challenges with greater determination.
This unwavering belief fuels our inner motivation to strive for our goals.
Not giving up easily requires perseverance and patience.
In the process of pursuing goals, it is inevitable to encounter various difficulties and setbacks.
At this time, we must have enough perseverance and patience to persevere, constantly overcome obstacles, and gradually approach the goal.
Only after the precipitation of time and the accumulation of hard work can we achieve the ultimate achievement.
In the face of difficulties and setbacks, we tend to develop negative emotions and mindsets.
Only by adjusting your mentality can you maintain the pursuit of your goals.