Last night, a friend who I hadn't been in touch with for a long time called me to borrow 2,000 yuan. I was surprised, because she was doing design in a good company, her monthly salary was about 30,000 yuan, and her husband's salary was not low, and she bought a house in Shenzhen. No matter how I thought she wouldn't ask me to borrow money, or borrow two thousand dollars, so I thought she was joking with me.
We talked for a long time, and she told me what had happened to her in the past two years, crying and talking at the same time. The second child was born the year before last, and the eldest was going to elementary school, so she couldn't balance the time, so she quit her job, although it was a pity, but there was no way. After quitting her job, some customers who had worked with her before would still look for her, and she would draw pictures for them at home, and she could earn more than 10,000 yuan a month. Originally, such a life was really enviable, she had time to take care of her children, and she had an income of more than 10,000 yuan every month, plus her husband's monthly salary, in addition to the mortgage and family expenses, she could still save some every month. But at the end of the year before last, her husband also resigned, and he came out to open a design studio with a friend, she was strongly opposed, and now the overall economy is not good, there is no need to take risks, but her husband does not think so, he thinks that many companies are now not good because of the **, and the development cost is very high, so they do not engage in their own development, and they will go to comprador from the outside. couldn't stand her husband's enthusiasm, she really couldn't screw it, and she finally compromised. In this way, it adds a little difficulty and uncertainty to life, how do you know that you have infinite possibilities in life. Is this what is said: Is a man a teenager until he dies?
The studio's early investment, including venue leasing, decoration, personnel recruitment, etc., has invested nearly 200,000 yuan, and basically put their savings into it. I have been in this industry for more than ten years, and I also have some customers with good relationships on hand, and I can barely maintain the operation of the studio every month at the beginning, and my husband has opened a salary of 10,000 yuan for himself, but it is impossible to have more surpluses, and even 10,000 yuan is not even available for two or three months, but these are temporary, it is difficult to be difficult, and the days are tight, and you can live it. The house leak happened to rain overnight, and in January, the elderly at home had a problem with their physical examination and had surgery, and now the cost is a lot every month. There are a lot of things at home, and her own monthly output is not much, on the one hand, she has to take care of the children, on the other hand, she has to take care of the elderly, and she has no time at all. I can't make ends meet every month, and I want to sell my house, but I can't sell it at all. If you complain about your husband again, if you don't come out at the beginning, there won't be so many things, and it will only increase your resentment, which will not help, and the days will go on. In the process of talking to her, I felt that although she was uncomfortable, she was still positive.
Look at the past two or three years, everyone is so difficult, calculate your own side, there are few rich people, and a lot of negative ones. There is no hope for life to pass, life is becoming more and more confused, and it is a day to be able to live, and a year is a year. But if you can get through it, you can get through it. So life has to go on, and only by accepting the status quo can we move on. If you have been immersed in sadness and sadness, you have delayed your life and erased yourself. I have seen a sentence: True maturity is to be able to separate one's heart from the world after experiencing many things. Qianfan has been calm, smiling gently for half a life, and peace of mind is home. May we be better every day and better every year!