The poet John Lennon once said, "Life has left us when we are exhausted by it." ”
Admittedly, after three years of the pandemic, we were really tired. Some people are worried about work, some people are worried about where their small shops are going, and some families have less gathering and more separation, and they haven't even had a reunion dinner for a year or two.
Life is hard, and the only way to cross it is to cross it. Recovering lost happiness is something that everyone should consider.
Everything in the outside world affects us all the time, but we must learn to "break away", take today as the starting point, set off in full gear, and go to "poetry and distance".
First, organize your emotions and accept reality.
Neighbor Xiaojia's father suffered from throat cancer, and after a period of **, he was discharged from the hospital.
Originally, this was a good thing, but Xiaojia's father couldn't be happy. Because every two months, he has to go for a follow-up.
Xiaojia is from Hunan, but the place of the re-examination is in Guangzhou.
Before going to Guangzhou, Xiaojia and her father had to take several nucleic acid tests before they could pass along the way.
During the summer vacation, when the deadline for the inspection came again, Xiaojia's father was furious and said, "What kind of world is this? I'm not going.
Next, there was a commotion in the house, everyone expressed their opinions, and everyone was angry. To be honest, Xiaojia has to go to work, manage her parents, and often take leave to accompany her father to the hospital, is it easy?
I like this sentence very much: "The world is a mirror, frowning at it, it also frowns at you; Smile at it, and it smiles at you. ”In the past few years, everyone has had a hard life, and everyone will have grievances, but there is no point in complaining, it will only make things worse and worse.
The most hateful thing is that if you complain too much, you will have internal friction, which will lead to mental malaise and no hope in life.
Sort out your emotions, and you will find that there is hope when you are alive, and the days ahead, on the whole, are sunny.
If you want to get angry, close your eyes and calm your mind, then think about happy things and be grateful to the people around you who have helped you. If you quarrel with someone, take the initiative to shut up, and your emotions will be shut out.
Second, organize the circle and help each other accurately.
In the past, we often asked our friends to push the cup and change the lamp. Gatherings are a very free thing. But over the years, gatherings have been restricted. Under the epidemic, it is not uncommon not to go out for a week or two, let alone a party.
With fewer parties, you're much more relaxed. If someone asks you for a party, you can find a good reason - it is not easy to get around, and to stay in a small town is to contribute to society. Especially relatives and friends who are drifting apart, don't visit the door during the New Year's holiday, just forget it if you get separated.The law of 150 tells us that no matter how much you like to be lively, there are more than a hundred people who can be familiar with you. The reality is that when you are poor once and borrow money once, you will find that you don't have many friends.
Who can we associate with after the pandemic? Who are you going to associate with? It's nothing more than his own family, three or five confidants. As for colleagues in the workplace, it is a karmic relationship, and if they leave the unit, they will be fine.
There is really no need, on the road in the future, invite the lost wine and meat friends into life again.
When doing social subtraction, you also have to do addition, with righteous people.
During the epidemic, those who have helped you and been helped by you have left a deep friendship. After that, everyone made friends, and it was a circle of good people.
In the "Pudong Release", I saw that Liu Qinfang, an elderly man living alone in the Shuxin Neighborhood Committee, was helped by Lu Xiuzhen for a long time. Because of the epidemic, they could not meet each other, so they greeted each other every day, sometimes three or four times a day, to inquire about their living situation and solve their living needs.
The love through the mask is full of emotion. After that, we took off our masks and walked hand in hand.
Third, tidy up your family and live comfortably.
There is a message on the "Shangguan News" platform.
In April this year, Wang Chunfang and Chen Xuguang signed up together as volunteers. They participated in community protection, nucleic acid sampling, material delivery and other work.
The husband and wife said happily: "Our children are older, there are no worries at home, we must do our best to protect the home." ”
Simple language, optimistic attitude, and sunny family make life more meaningful.
On the front line of the epidemic, there are many couples who are alienated from their families for work, but they increasingly feel that family is the biggest backing in life.
In the family, many retired elderly people do their best to help their children repay the mortgage, and pay attention to the city where their children are located at any time; Young people worry about their parents in their hometowns more often than before.
Next, we need to put the family relationship in order and clean up the house. With a warm home, what to do in the future, there is a joint force.
Thinking in one place and working hard in one place, how can there be any reason not to succeed?
Fourth, organize your wallet and go out to make money.
Maybe you're like me, you've been trying to make money and have always felt like you don't have enough money to spend.
After experiencing unemployment and the difficulty of starting a business, we feel more and more the benefits of saving money.
The Persian poet Sa'di said, "Whoever is frugal in his daily life will easily get through it when he is poor; Whoever is luxurious and luxurious when he is rich will die of hunger and cold when he is poor. ”We have survived the three-year epidemic period. What are you worried about in the future? When the epidemic passes, the way to make money will be wider, and there will be more opportunities to travel far away.
Now, tidy up your wallet, see how much money you have left, what you can do, and throw away all the show-offs. Believe that opportunities will be given to those who are prepared.
From now on, don't spend lavishly. Even if you can't spend all your money, you still have to think about what to do with your children? Or you can go and help the poor and leave a good reputation.
Aristotle said, "The ultimate value of life lies in the ability to awaken and think, not just to survive." ”The pandemic has given us difficulties and taught us a lot.
Now, you have to learn to summarize. Be a diligent tidying person, you will find the sunshine every day, and your steps will become easier.
Life is a process of throwing away while walking, if you are not willing to throw anything, don't talk about the future.
People who walk with stones in their arms, even if they have the strength of a tiger, are out of breath.
Even if life is a mess, as long as it is tidy, it will become clean and colorful.