Mr. Bao did not hesitate to offend his uncle, and risked that he had nothing to match Miss Wang, and in the end, Miss Wang still didn't appreciate it, it was really abusive.
Recently, after watching the finale of "Flowers", Mr. Bao failed and lost a lot of money, because he helped Miss Wang make a list of Wal-Mart behind his uncle's back, and was known by his uncle afterwards, and he was disheartened and broke up with Mr. Bao.
In fact, Wal-Mart's single was given to Mr. Bao by his uncle, and it was also a way out for himself. Now, this retreat has been blocked by Mr. Bao himself, and he must hate iron and steel.
Fortunately, there is also the land in Chuansha, Pudong, and Mr. Bao has worked hard for many years, and it is not considered to be nothing. Ah Bao has returned after a thousand sails, and he is still Ah Bao, all of this has already been foreshadowed.
01 People who pay too much attention to emotions are not good at business.
Wal-Mart's list is a retreat left by his uncle for Mr. Bao, but Mr. Bao secretly helped Miss Wang make this list many times behind his back because he cared about Miss Wang's friendship.
In the play, there is such a scene. Mr. Bao had breakfast with his uncle, and his uncle suddenly took out a stack of lists, which turned out to be that his uncle had bought out all the air tickets to Shenzhen, just to prevent Miss Wang from going to Shenzhen.
When Mr. Bao found out, he was obviously shocked. But in the face of his uncle's question, "You won't secretly open the back door," Mr. Bao still said: "You won't release water behind your back." ”
It's just a blink of an eye, Mr. Bao immediately called ** to his friend and tried to get two tickets for Miss Wang to go to Shenzhen. It's just that I didn't expect that after Miss Wang learned that there was no air ticket, she drove a Cadillac to Shenzhen resolutely, completely disregarding her own safety.
On the other side, Miss Wang was late, and Mr. Bao helped her stabilize the situation. At the critical moment, Miss Wang realized that the person behind her was Mr. Bao, and decisively found another factory and did not accept Mr. Bao's help.
When Uncle Zai learned that it was Mr. Bao who was helping Miss Wang, he was immediately disheartened, as if to say: "I am trying my best to plan for you, and then find a way for you, and you actually hide it to help the opponent, so where do you put me." ”
Uncle thought deeply, left the Peace Hotel, and parted ways with Mr. Bao.
In business, the more you care about the friendship of friends, the more you will shrink back and the less you will succeed. In business, what is needed is a rational person who can rationally analyze the current situation and know what to do at the moment.
And Mr. Bao, completely ignoring the situation, insisted on helping Miss Wang, angrily took away his uncle, and blocked his retreat with his own hands.
In the business field, you should make a move, don't look at your friends and your family. The key thing is that in the business field, there is no affection to talk about, everything depends on strength. A friend is a friend, and business is business.
Sometimes, I wonder if Mr. Bao didn't help, but listened to his uncle, would it have ended differently? Leave your views in the comment area and discuss together!
02 The more gambler mentality, the more you will lose money in **.
When Uncle learned that it was Mr. Bao who was secretly helping Miss Wang, he thought twice and decided to leave.
When the uncle left, out of friendship, he couldn't bear to watch Mr. Bao lose in a mess, but he still said: "Take a step back." These three words contain deep meaning, not only to tell Mr. Bao that there is no need to send it, but also to say, ** When you say, remember to take a step back and leave a hand.
But at this time, Mr. Bao was completely blinded by utilitarianism, knowing that if he continued like this, he might lose nothing, and it might be too late to stop at this time.
But Mr. Bao still wants to give it a go, and he still feels that he has a chance to turn the tables, and he feels that he has been fried for so long, and he still has a little experience, however, it is this conceit that makes him lose money.
In fact, this mentality is the gambler's mentality, betting everything on the huge risk of not knowing the future, knowing everything in his heart, but still wanting to gamble, what if the bet wins?
Whether it's ** or playing cards, it is said that "ten bets and nine loses." "It's just to tell us that this kind of money earned by luck is risky, don't look at the small win at the beginning, but then I don't know what it will be.
That's because you bet all your net worth on the next win or loss, betting without confidence and strength, and relying entirely on luck. Besides, how could luck always be on your side?
Therefore, the more gamblers have a mentality, the more they will lose money. Because there is no confidence and strength in blocking, it is to pin hope on luck.
03 Thinking too much, timid, the future you want is a dream after all.
I think the reason why Mr. Bao will help Miss Wang is because Mr. Bao still has feelings for Miss Wang, and he always has Miss Wang's place in his heart.
If Mr. Bao has long been pessimistic about Miss Wang and has no feelings, why take the risk and secretly help Miss Wang behind his uncle's back? It should be sitting back and listening to my uncle's words.
In a highly competitive society, one person helps another person, not for no reason, there must be a plan, either for benefit or affection.
Obviously, Mr. Bao still has feelings for Miss Wang. Then why did Mr. Bao prefer to play mahjong for a night instead of going to the appointment?
Except for Mr. Bao, we don't know. It may be that Mr. Bao feels how successful he has to be and how much money he has earned in order to give Miss Wang a good life, so that he can accept Miss Wang.
It may also be that Mr. Bao was injured in the last relationship and felt that he might not be able to give Miss Wang happiness.
No matter which one it is, Mr. Bao thinks too much, is timid, and is destined to be alone. I want to let go but I still want to break the thread, and I want to contact but I don't know what to say.
Sometimes, in the face of feelings, you can pursue bravely and leave no regrets for yourself, so that you can have a good time.
I think that when Mr. Bao was matching Miss Wang, he was ready to be discovered by his uncle, and he also understood the consequences of doing so, what do you think?
Finally, I hope that when we are brave, we can stop decisively and live vigorously when we are brave.