Zhang Ailing once said: "No matter how good a lover is, it is just a tool for a man to pass the loneliness; No matter how old the wife is, she is a man's lifelong partner. This sentence speaks to the nature of extramarital affairs and also reveals the different attitudes of men towards their lovers and wives.
A lover is like wine, and a wife is like water. Wine is entertainment at the dinner table, and water is the source of life. Men can quit drinking, but not water. A lover may bring a momentary passion, but after all, it is only a flash of love; And the wife is the partner in the man's life, silently paying for him and taking care of his life.
A 28-year-old Xiaohua shares her story. She was with a 48-year-old man who bought her an expensive apartment and car. However, when Xiaohua wants to turn positive, men always find various reasons to delay. Even though she thinks they're true love, maybe she's just a canary raised by a man. When she began to ask for more, the man began to resent her.
An extramarital affair is like a hypocritical performance that sets aside real life. In this performance, there are no trivialities of life, no nagging and accusations, and no need to be responsible for each other's lives. Such feelings seem to be beautiful, but in fact they lack soul, empty and scarce. In extramarital affairs, we often only see the sweetness of the moon before the flowers, but ignore the truth behind it. This kind of love is like a castle in the air, once it is faced with reality, it will easily collapse.
Therefore, cherish the people around you and don't be fooled by illusory emotions. True love needs to go through the trials and tribulations of life. Only in real life can we find a real partner and go through the ups and downs of life together.