In a short period of time, we can appreciate the changes brought about by this colorful world, and with frequent interactions, we inevitably come into contact with all kinds of people. Some people are gentle and amiable, like the warm spring sun shining on the earth; Some people's emotions are unpredictable and difficult to grasp. It is particularly striking that we sometimes see people who are outwardly warm and friendly and courteous, but who often display endless anger and irritability at home or in front of close people. This article will reveal for you that this type of person may fall into the following categories.
First of all, there are those who don't understand themselves enough. If a person does not have a comprehensive understanding of himself, then it is difficult to grasp the balance of emotions. Therefore, in social situations, they try to hide their true feelings and wear masks, but in a more secure family environment, they tend to let go of all their defenses and show their true selves. The huge gap between the two is often confusing for family members.
Secondly, perhaps those friends who are full of inferiority complex deep down. Such friends often display a humble, low-key, and slightly timid posture in public. Fear of conflict and fear of ridicule for inappropriate speech make them try to be polite in social interactions in order to win the favor and respect of others. However, in front of their loved ones, such people often lose control of their emotions because they know that their loved ones will always tolerate and forgive them. This is actually a manifestation of their inner inferiority complex.
Then there are those who are not good at regulating their emotions. They may be able to maintain a moderate level of sanity in social situations, but when they are troubled, their emotions tend to become immediately agitated. It is easier for them to release their emotions in front of their loved ones, because family members are often the window for their emotions to pour out.
Finally, talk about those who lack good communication skills. This type of friend is usually prone to misunderstandings and disputes in the process of communicating with others. They may not know how to properly express their emotions and needs, or they may not be very good at listening to the opinions and experiences of others. When interacting with strangers, they may choose to remain silent or be polite in order to avoid unnecessary trouble. But in front of the family, it is likely that due to poor communication, emotions will slowly burn.
All in all, factors such as emotional control, self-perception, and communication skills may affect how individuals behave differently in different situations. I hope that all of you can gain insight into your potential problems and actively improve yourself, so that the above phenomenon can be alleviated.