Friends, I find the world reallyMagic.
saw a hot search on Weibo: A 53-year-old mother gave birth to a younger brother to her 25-year-old daughter.
Yes, you read that right, that is53 years old.
I have to admire the courage of this mother.
Of course, in addition to admiration, I can't help but feel for my 25-year-old daughterPinch a handful of sweat.
Although the daughter came out to respond, saying that she really needed a companion, she welcomed the arrival of her younger brother.
However, netizens didn't buy it at all, and they were upset with her:
Is it a companion or a tripIt's hard to say. ”
Married no, not married to youGave birth to a younger brother to raise
It's funny, for my daughter, it's two old oil bottles plus one in the futureSmall drag oil bottles
I can understand everyone's "anger".
After all, no matter how you look at it, it's easy for my sisterSuffer.
Just like netizens said:
In another 7 years, my mother will be 60 years old, and my younger brother will just enter elementary school.
When my brother reached adulthood at the age of 18, my mother75 years old
Said it was to give a companion to my 25-year-old daughter.
But in the end, there is a high probability that it will still become oneFetters.
I am reminded of a movie: "My Sister".
The heroine in it, An Ran, is equivalent to one of this newsExtreme follow-up.
His parents died in a car accident, leaving behind a younger brother who was six or seven years old.
At this time, Enron has beenGraduated from collegeFinish.
She wants to go to Beijing to take the postgraduate examination.
But this accident forced her in her lifeFork in the road.
Originally, she planned to send her younger brother to someone else's home.
But in the end, I couldn't bear it.
Between her dream and her brother, she choseLatter.
Since then, she has worked to earn money to raise her younger brother and take on the responsibility of an older sister.
And that's not the worst of all.
The most terribleWhat is it?
An Ran's aunt had a similar experience with An Ran.
For her younger brother, she lost the opportunity to study abroad, and since then she has been beenTrapped inThe family is a small square land.
But in the end, she comforted An Ran and asked her to take on the responsibility of raising her younger brotherFate compromised.
She is not unsympathetic to Enron.
Rather, she's tooHelpless.
She feels that as an older sister, she has the responsibility and obligation to take care of her younger brother.
Sister" is like oneEnchantments, trapping generations of women.
A lot of people cried when they watched this movie.
Because I saw it in Enron or my aunt's bodyown shadow.
For my sister, raising is not, and not raising is not.
Whatever you chooseMistake.
The phrase "the eldest sister is like a mother" is a fate that they cannot escape in their lives.
Actually, except for my sister, in this family tragedy where there is no winner.
The same goes for my brother"Victims".
As soon as he was born, he carried his sister's inexplicable hostility.
But at the same time, you have to rely on thisUniqueof loved ones.
There's a detail in this movie that pokes me very much:
My sister said: You are not the only one in my life.
The younger brother replied: MeIt's just youFinish.
Yes, what's wrong with the younger brother?
The film is actually based on a true case.
Ignoring their daughter's obstruction, the parents insisted on giving birth to their second child.
In the end, they both died, leaving behind their younger brotherNo one to support.
The elder sister did not raise her younger brother like An Ran in the movie.
Instead, he chose to give his younger brother to another family to raise.
Here it isReality.
Think from the perspective of my younger brother: my parents died and I was abandoned by my sister.
It's not anotherHuman tragedy.
And even if it's not as extreme as in the movies.
In real life, because of the problem of raising children, there are two sisters and brothersConflicts continueStories abound.
This is an eternal thorn in the hearts of these two children.
So, parents, childbearing is not just a matter of two people, butFamilyTarget.
Don't ruin the happiness of your two children's lives because of a momentary impulse.
Everyone has their ownLife Issues.
Don't leave your responsibilities to the children you love the most.
It's not love, it's oneSelfish.