Flowers can be folded straight, do not wait for no flowers and empty branches.
Nowadays, the wheels of science and technology are rolling forward, so that many aunts who are old but still have hot maternal love have also seen the dawn of their dreams.
But once the bricks of age are stacked higher and higher, the risk of giving birth to a baby is getting bigger and bigger like a snowball, and the old machine of the body is difficult to resist the wear and tear of the years.
There was a new thing in Heilongjiang recently, a 53-year-old grandmother was stunned to add a fat boy to the family in the hospital, and the 25-year-old girl at home couldn't close her mouth, and she also posted a warm picture on the Internet.
On that day, at the door of the hospital delivery room, the whole family gathered, the old father and the eldest daughter were nervous like ants on a hot pot, and the grandparents, grandparents, and seven aunts and eight aunts were all like fifteen buckets hanging in their hearts, seven up and eight down.
You must know that the challenges and dangers hidden behind the words "ultra-elderly mothers" are not something that ordinary people can bear casually.
After a long period of suffering, ** finally pushed open the door of the delivery room, holding a healthy male doll in his arms, announcing the safety of the mother and child.
Look at the little guy who just came to the world, sleeping quietly in a circle of old and young relatives, especially the eldest daughter, looking at him with tears in her eyes, and understanding that from now on there will be a little brother who is connected by blood. The worry just now has turned into a strong love for the newborn.
Subsequently, this "grandma-level" mother was pushed out of the delivery room accompanied by **, although the years have been engraved in the corners of her eyes, but her calm and calm after the wind and rain is still clearly visible, but the exhaustion and vicissitudes of life can not escape the eyes of others.
The girl revealed on the Internet that in fact, her parents have always had a desire to have another baby, but they were afraid that it would affect them, so they kept talking about it.
Now seeing the birth of her younger brother, her parents' wishes come true, she herself is also too happy, thinking that in the future there will be relatives to accompany her, and when the elderly parents need to take care of them, she can help take care of her younger brother, and the younger brother can take care of himself in turn when he grows up, such a family ending is really intimate and real.
Netizens are also discussing this matter.
Some netizens said: It's good, you have to raise him when you give birth to a little brother.
Some netizens also analyzed:
To tell the truth, the mother gave birth to the daughter and raised the daughter. It's not a companion, it's a burden.
At the same time, some netizens ridiculed:
Eighty percent of the family's property overnight**.
Finally, some netizens expressed doubts:
Is the 25-year-old difference really a companion? My eldest is 10 years old. I've been hesitating whether the second child wants to! Playing together, growing up together, and the difference between more than 10 years can't do it. And I'm afraid that there will be a generation gap between them - tangled.
In the final analysis, having a baby and raising a baby is a major event in life, especially for our middle-aged and elderly friends, we have to think twice, and all kinds of pros and cons must be carefully weighed.
The birth of a new life is certainly worthy of celebration by the whole world, but how can the nurturing process be achieved overnight? It takes a lot of energy and time to accompany education, and when you reach the age of retirement, you can take care of a little child with all your might, which is so difficult that it makes people sweat when you think about it.
If you think about it deeply, even if the conditions at home are superior and the material security is sufficient, the psychological feelings of the children cannot be ignored.
For example, whether the sister and brother can get along harmoniously, whether the two will have a "generation gap" because of the age gap. Although my sister warmly welcomed my brother's arrival, we still had to look at it sensibly.
As a parent, you must consider all aspects when making decisions to ensure that every member of the family can be properly cared for and reasonably arranged, which is the real performance of responsibility and responsibility!