Teacher Zhao Ran said: "With a group of gamblers, you will learn to gamble, with a group of drinking friends, you will learn to drink, with a group of mahjong friends, you will play mahjong." Gambling friends persuade you to play cards, drinking friends persuade you to do it, and Mayou advise you to come again and then three missing one, so I said to change the circle, and changing the circle is to change the fate. Birds and phoenixes fly far away, people are virtuous and virtuous and of high quality, those who are close to Zhu are red, those who are close to ink are black, things are gathered in kind, people are divided into groups, they come in the flowers, they are all fragrant tastes, and they are all stinky smells. So man is a product of his environment. ”
Zhao Ran's remarks were like a stone thrown into a pond, which provoked me to think deeply about interpersonal communication and environmental impact. "With a bunch of gamblers, you'll learn to gamble ......," she said"It's not just an observation of human behavior, it's an insight into human nature. We are often susceptible to the influence of those around us, both in our habits and values.
I remember when I was in college, I had a few roommates who were keen on games living in my dorm room. Every night, their keyboards and cheers come and go. In the beginning, I was able to stick to my study schedule, but as time went on, I also started to be drawn into that virtual world. It wasn't until one day, when I realized that I was addicted to it and that my studies were seriously threatened, that I realized how influential the environment was.
Teacher Zhao Ran mentioned"Those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black".It is an old proverb that tells us that a person's character and behavior are influenced by those around them. This is not to say that we cannot choose to be friends with those who share our interests, but it emphasizes that we should keep a clear head and avoid blindly following others.
At the same time,"Birds and phoenixes fly far away, and people are virtuous and of high quality".It reminds us that surviving with excellent people can stimulate our potential and improve our quality. This power of "close to Zhu Zhechi" is positive and uplifting, and it encourages us to actively seek out those environments and people who can make us better.
However, it is not easy to change the circle you are in. It means that we need to be brave enough to face our shortcomings and strive to improve our value in order to attract better partners. At the same time, it also requires us to have sufficient self-control and discernment, and not to be swayed by unfavorable circumstances.
Looking back on Mr. Zhao Ran's remarks, I deeply feel that the circle has an immeasurable influence on a person's fate. It is like a double-edged sword that can both help us grow and deploy. Therefore, choosing a positive circle full of positive energy is important for our future.
Dong Yuhui also said: Be in company with excellence and grow togetherHe believes that by being in company of excellent people, you can make continuous progress and become more outstanding. Therefore, he always learns from each other and grows together with the people around him.
Growing up with excellent people is a positive attitude towards life. When we are in a good environment, we are influenced by the good, which motivates us to keep moving forward.
Good people usually share some common qualities, such as diligence, focus, self-discipline, and continuous learning. With such people, we will unconsciously be infected by them and begin to imitate their behaviors and habits. This kind of imitation not only helps us improve our personal qualities, but also helps us to better achieve our goals.
At the same time, surround ourselves with great people and provide us with more opportunities to learn and grow. They often share their experiences and knowledge to help us broaden our horizons and empower us. By communicating and learning from them, we can master new skills and methods more quickly and improve our competitiveness.
In addition, the company of good people stimulates our sense of competition. When we see that the people around us are striving for excellence, we will also not be willing to lag behind and strive to improve ourselves. This kind of competition not only promotes our growth, but also helps us develop a positive mindset.
In short, it is a positive attitude towards life to be in the company of excellent people and grow together. It stimulates our potential, enhances our abilities, and allows us to go further and more steadily on the road of life. Therefore, we should cherish the time we spend with excellent people, learn from them, and grow together with them.