Today I came to complain about my family's "wake-up time", in addition to getting up late is getting up late, and it is not possible to ** during the winter vacation, once I didn't get up until two o'clock in the afternoon!
In my house, she calls herself the "Sleeping God".
When school started, her classmates were already sitting in the classroom at 6:50, and my Dabao had just gotten up and sat down at the dining table (of course, my home was close to the school!). ）
Then she just drank some porridge in a fool's way, didn't care about anything else, wiped her mouth and went to school! 
I couldn't stand her "bad habit" in my heart, after all, I got up early and was busy for nearly an hour before I could bring the steamed soup to the table.
But she didn't have time to eat because she was late, ignoring my hard work and the fruits of my labor, and I couldn't help but feel angry in my heart. 
Sometimes, when "Toughness" comes up, I simply don't see it and hide in another room (I don't want to mess with the adolescent child).
Do you like to eat or not, it's you who is hungry, what's the matter with me? ”
Because I have to urge her to get up over and over again: it's almost late, hurry, hurry! I'm running out of patience!
I don't even provide "bed calling service" anymore, let the alarm clock call you! Love is not late! Love to eat or not, love to grow or not, love nutrition or not!
We always want to grab a lot of things for the child, so we keep urging her to do it early, do it quickly, and what we ask for is to care about the result, the inner is anxiety and fear, and the child is nervous and uneasy.
We adults are also like spinning tops, constantly spinning, not only can not stand up, but it is uncomfortable to look at the slow child, and it is precisely the slow represents the process, and the confidence and ease that are passed on to the child behind it.
So I told myself that these mistakes had to be corrected, and my obsessions had to be let go.
Of course, letting go does not mean compromise, nor does it mean weakness, but it means that I love him more, and I love him higher!
I sometimes complain to my girlfriends about the depression of raising a baby: Now the children are really difficult to raise, we pay so much for them, they are still like that, I don't know how to love the children?
When I complained, I felt like I was a victim and put myself in a position of lack of love.
We often think that love needs to be harvested from the outside to be obtained, and that we can have love when we take it from others.
In fact, we have always loved, and there is no shortage of love. The moment we can appreciate the flowers, trees, cats and dogs, it proves that we have always had love.
We just need to activate the love that we have, just as you are willing to appreciate and accept all the people around you.
The sun never needs love. The temperature of the sun changes the air.
If love doesn't increase, nothing will change in the world! May we all raise the level of love, live ourselves as the sun, and the air in our homes will change!