"The world is not perfect, and neither is life. Let us learn to accept this imperfection and find value in life. "
From now on, you can go from living well to returning to society and enjoying a healthy life! ”
Although Ye Tan was in poor health before, he was even diagnosed with stage 4 breast cancer and bone metastasis.
But she was fortunate to get the meticulous ** of the hospital's professional team, and at the same time, she also adjusted her mentality in time, followed the doctor's advice, and successfully broke free from the line of life and death.
Once upon a time, Ms. Ye Tan was a strong woman who put her work first. But since she was diagnosed with cancer, her personality has changed greatly, and she is full of tenderness in everything she does.
The current Ms. Ye Tan is very different from the previous sharp image, and fans love her even more.
Ms. Ye Tan once joked that she "died once", so she is no longer attached to many things. Now, she devotes more energy to public welfare and has long been down-to-money about money.
On February 28, Ye Tan posted on social platforms that she and Chen Xingjia had dinner and talked freely in the mansion. The conversation between the two bigwigs was very pleasant, and they both had the courage to disclose their illnesses, which was very admirable.
You know, for some celebrities, they rarely mention their private lives, let alone their illnesses.
But Ye Tan and Chen Xingjia chose to go public and face it calmly, the realm of these two has reached a new height!
Chen Xingjia specially went to Shanghai to send encouragement and support to the sick Ye Tan. After the two met, they hugged tightly, as if using this action to convey the strength in each other's hearts.
It was revealed that Chen Xingjia's mother also died of breast cancer, so he was well aware of the pain and distress of the disease.
He hopes that through his actions, Ye Tan will feel the warmth and strength from her friends, so that she will have more courage to face difficulties and overcome the disease.
Ye Tan personally cooked, cooked delicious dishes, and treated Chen Xingjia with hospitality. The two share food, talk about their hearts, and share the moments of each other's lives.
For some successful people, talking is a very valuable asset that can have a profound impact on them.
Chen Xingjia's visit this time is obviously fully prepared. He did not hesitate to share the details of his depression, which deeply touched Ye Tan.
Chen Xingjia, who is perhaps not widely known, graduated from Tsinghua University with a master's degree in public administration, was a former parent official, and especially served as the county party secretary in Badong County, Hubei Province, for five years.
However, he chose to give up his career and devote himself to public welfare, and now he is a writer and the chairman of Shenzhen Henghui Public Welfare Association.
Chen Xingjia suffered from severe depression, which made it difficult to sleep all night, and even sleeping pills could not help him sleep.
During this time, he lost a lot of weight.
He was an official in a different place, while his wife was alone at home with the children, and the two were 500 kilometers apart.
Chen Xingjia deeply felt that his wife was responsible for the hardships of raising children alone, and he didn't want her to worry about himself, so no matter how bad his situation was, he kept it a secret.
The most fatal problem for people with depression is that they have no one to talk to, and Chen Xingjia is no different. Fortunately, his lover became the key to his psychological predicament, and his wife's love gave him a second chance at life.
Why did Chen Xingjia suddenly choose to tell his wife after hiding his illness for a long time? The answer is his beloved mother. Chen Xingjia heard his mother's call in a dream and realized that he was sick.
He immediately picked up his mobile phone, contacted his wife who was far away, and told her about his depression. All of this stems from the mother's sentence "Jia'er is obedient, come out!" ”
With her selfless dedication and firm determination, Chen Xingjia's wife successfully helped her depressed husband out of the predicament, which was highly praised by the doctor.
For patients with depression, it is not an overnight thing, it requires long-term companionship and meticulous care, and there can be no mistakes at every step, otherwise all efforts will be in vain.
Chen Xingjia's relationship with his wife is deep and sincere, and he is always full of enthusiasm when he mentions her.
He opened up about his experience of depression and shared how he felt in the dark, just hoping that those who were struggling with depression would get strength from it, knowing that it was not a shameful thing to do, but hopeful.
In this way, he hopes that more people will understand depression and stop treating it as a mental illness.
Ye Tan has a deep understanding of the pain of Chen Xingjia's illness, and she believes that she and Chen Xingjia have many things in common, such as talking openly about the experience of illness to alleviate the stigma of illness.
Indeed, the accelerated course of many patients is often related to their state of mind. After reading this**, it is very moving.
Ye Tan and Chen Xingjia not only recovered their health after experiencing their respective illnesses, but also shared many details, bringing hope and strength to people who are also sick, which is really admirable.
Chen Xingjia shared his illness frankly, but it attracted cynicism from some netizens. Some people questioned his motives, saying that he was creating ** to win traffic;
Some people also accused his charity ** of raising more than 100 million, but in fact only spent more than 15 million, and the rest of the money was in the bank to eat interest.
It is unbelievable that such an outstanding person as Chen Xingjia would be attacked like this. This undoubtedly reveals the narrowness and darkness of the heart of those who attacked him.
We cannot deny that Chen Xingjia must have his shortcomings and shortcomings, because he is not a saint and is not perfect.
However, most people don't have his talent and mind, so before blaming and criticizing him, examine whether you are good enough and better than him.
It is not easy to live oneself in a limited life, create one's own wonder, and make a beneficial contribution to society.
So, what is your impression of Chen Xingjia?