Children look for their mothers for big and small things, and how to guide dependent children

Mondo Parenting Updated on 2024-03-04

My daughter is very dependent on me, and after learning to speak mom, she calls mom every day for everything.

Now my daughter is two and a half years old, and as long as I am at home, my mother has to do everything: making milk powder, fetching water and washing my hands, washing my face and wiping my face, preparing fruits, reading picture books, and sleeping with her. As soon as one thing was said, my daughter shouted: I want Mommy!

I said in my heart that she was still young and could understand her dependence.

But actually, I also want to be able to take a breath and let my daughter do something on her own.

Recently, I bought a picture book "My Mother is a Fairy", and I took my daughter to read it twice. Later in the day, when I wanted to play for a while, my daughter suddenly said:

My mom is a little fairy and she needs a fairy vacation.

She seemed to accept that I was at home at once, but the fact that I could not accompany her made me stunned for a moment, and I couldn't believe that this moment of happiness had suddenly arrived.

Let's take a look at the magic of this picture book!

The narrative of the picture book is very captivating, depicting an omnipotent and loving fairy mother in the voice of a child.

Mothers breastfeed, walk, feed, dress, put on shoes, comfort crying children, and take care of sick children.

Scene by scene, it seems like me and my daughter growing up.

The picture book conveys the daily busyness and hard work of the mother, and also reveals the mother's deep inner desires and expectations.

She may want to dress up and go out, she may want to catch up with friends, she may just need to be quiet and alone for a while, or she may just want to sleep by herself

Although I may not see my mother for a while, or maybe I am older, I know that she always thinks about me and loves me.

This kind of narration in a child's voice not only makes it easier for children to understand and accept, but also allows adult readers to think more deeply about the role and value of motherhood.

The style of the picture book is very beautiful, with soft colors and a fairy tale feel.

The image of the fairy mother is depicted vividly, and her beauty and mystery deeply attract the reader's attention.

The interaction between the child and the mother makes people feel the warmth and strength of maternal love.

The mother on the fairy holiday is full of energy, free and happy.

The theme of this picture book is very profound.

Picture books tell us that mothers are not just housewives, they also have their own dreams and pursuits.

They need to be cared for and cared for, and they need time to regain their energy and energy.

They also need to withdraw from their mother's identity and be themselves again, even if it is only for a short time, it will make them full of fairy spirit.

This is especially important for mothers in modern society, who often have to balance family and work, and bear enormous pressures and burdens.

The ending of the picture book is also particularly touching:

The mother who is enjoying the fairy holiday sees the cute rabbit lantern and thinks about buying it for the child, the body is on vacation, and the heart is always worried about the child.

The child's gratitude and love for the fairy mother are overflowing, the mother's love is great and selfless, and the child's love is sincere and pure.

Although the mother is an omnipotent and loving fairy, even a fairy mother cannot do everything for her children. It can guide children to think:

What did the fairy mother do? Can children do these things on their own? Why can't fairy mothers stay with their children all the time? Does she have her own things to do? What would happen if the child had to be with his mother at all times? Through such discussions, children can gradually understand that their mother is their closest dependence, and all family members are their closest dependence.

In general, the picture book "My Mother is a Fairy" not only shows the greatness of maternal love and the diversity of mothers' roles, but also reminds us to care more about and cherish the mothers around us.

I hope that every mother can love her child freely and happily, and every child loves her own fairy mother.

Mom is a fairy, not a superman, and I hope every mother can be a fairy again.

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