I really didn't expect that Tianxin, who has a big heart, will also be scolded to withdraw from the net.
The turmoil originated from a **:
**In the middle, Tianxin wears the cos suit of the two-dimensional top-notch "Hatsune Miku", with the text "I won't wear a wig".
Some two-dimensional lovers recognized this outfit at a glance and cheered in the comment area: "Ahhh ”
Mother Li Xiaolu also immediately appeared to cheer her daughter after seeing it: "It's almost two braids, it's cute".
Unexpectedly, it was these few sentences of dialogue that made many people in the cos circle dissatisfied.
Because Tianxin didn't wear the right clothes, makeup and hair didn't match, the whole shape was zero according to the standards of COS. So some people feel that Tianxin not only rubs the traffic of the second dimension, but also does not respect the second element culture, which is a big taboo.
Immediately afterwards, some two-dimensional small policemen "rushed to the police", complaining about how ugly and ugly they were.
There is also a wave of people who are even more excessive, running to the comment area of Tianxin's good friend to insult and go crazy.
Tianxin, who is used to seeing big battles, is naturally not stunned when she sees this kind of bad comments, but in order to protect her friends, she still came out to apologize after the matter fermented, indicating that she really didn't understand the rules of the cos circle, and also hoped that the other party would stop cyberbullying.
But the turmoil did not stop there, many people felt that they had the upper hand, and they became more and more gripping with Tianxin's mistakes and omissions, and even used this to satirize Li Xiaolu in a weird way:
"Why doesn't a mother teach her daughter so good at doing hair?"The temperament of loving to follow the trend is exactly the same as that of her mother. ”
In the end, Tianxin was speechless under the large-scale siege, so she had to apologize and cancel her account, wanting to end this farce.
Most of the netizens who paid attention to this matter, their first reaction was to "choose a side" between Tianxin and the two-dimensional group
Either support Tianxin, satirize the nobility of the second dimension, have a lot of things, and can't be provoked;
Either speak up for the second dimension, and feel that Tianxin's approach is impolite and uneducated.
But from the perspective of "standing in line", is this really so extreme?
If anyone sins against me. I can't bear it.
At the beginning of the incident, Tianxin didn't bring two-dimensional related topics at all, she was just sharing her life, and she had no intention of gaining popularity.
Correspondingly, the two-dimensional netizens who recognized Hatsune's appearance were also pleasantly surprised, and they were all praising Tianxin for her good dressing.
And what really amplifies the extreme voices of a small number of people and intensifies the contradictions step by step is the marketing accounts that don't think it's a big deal to watch the excitement. It can be said that it is the fanning of some people with ulterior motives that has turned this small controversy into an online violence that is difficult to end.
In fact, most of the ** fermentation follows this logic: after the dispute breaks out, the emotions of both sides of the contradiction blur the boundaries of facts, and the desire to vent dissatisfaction overwhelms the desire for rational communication.
From this point of view, although the solution of Tianxin Pinhao is simple and crude, it is undoubtedly extremely effective. She knows how to choose between the Internet and reality, and she understands that she doesn't have to be led by the nose.
Moreover, her beloved mom and dad have always supported her.
Her mother told her, "Don't listen to the whispers of the world, go see what you like." ”
Dad encouraged her: "No matter what the world does to you, my mother and I are your strongest support." ”
When she was a child, the little girl who confidently shouted "We are white" has grown up, but the "not easy to mess with" energy has not changed at all, because she has enough love and support.
This is actually not the first time Tianxin has been tough with a keyboard man.
During the Chinese New Year, Tianxin posted the New Year's money and was kidnapped by netizens Daodao, she directly posted angrily:
Someone maliciously commented when she shared her life: "Is there an Uncle Xiaowan? ”
Tianxin fought back without hesitation: "Just no, there is still a lack of a place in the school toilet, can you enter?" ”
There are still people who don't give up and continue to stir up trouble, and Tianxin responds positively:
Don't trumpet under my comments in the future, I'm blackened. ”
In the face of unwarranted bad comments, Tianxin has always left no room for scolding. Because she knows very well that keyboard warriors always "take a step back and kick their noses in the face", it is far more effective to fight back head-on than to swallow their anger.
made the same choice, as well as Wang Shiling.
Last year, Wang Shiling said a "no" on her social account, and was instructed by netizens to "speak Chinese" online.
She replied directly domineeringly: "Why do you teach me to do things?" ”
Earlier, Wang Shiling was scolded for showing off her wealth and showing off because of her extravagant outfits, but she did not defend herself, but responded frankly: "I can post whatever I like, people live for tens of thousands of days, and they can do whatever they want." ”
Some people think it's strange how these cute babies who grew up under the eyes of the national audience have grown up so "ignorant" and "uneducated"?
But in fact, politeness and respect are mutual.
In the face of the attacks and abuses of keyboard warriors, the most powerful counterattack is: the spearhead is outward, and there will be no internal friction.
Go your own way.
Say no to finger-pointing.
The last second-generation star who officially announced his retirement from the network was Wu Feiman.
"I choose to quit the identity of Wu Feynman today. I was mentally and physically tired and had no motivation to post. ”This is Feynman's last message to the internet.
It is hard to imagine that he was only 15 years old when he said this.
That's Feynman, who is known as "the most interesting soul of the Internet" and "the only connection of Hong Kong entertainment", what did he go through to make him so physically and mentally exhausted?
Things have to start with Feynman's "atypical popularity".
Feynman's "making waves" on the Internet began with falling in love with his father Wu Zhenyu.
Many years ago, Feynman called himself Wu Zhenyu's "black fan head", and sent a message to his father's post bar "Wu Zhenyu is so ugly", but was reported by the bar owner to block a dragon.
In the following days, he dutifully played the role of a black fan, p dad black pictures, spoofed **, and did everything he could.
Even the remarks on WeChat to my dad are: Wu Zhenyu owes me 50 billion.
Later, Wu Zhenyu participated in "Chasing the Light", and Feynman shouted (dismantled the stage) for the first time: "Please wear anti-fishglasses and anti-town headphones ......."”
Using homophonic stalks to complain about dad is handy.
Even when asked a death question like "do you like dad or mom", Feynman could answer coldly without changing his face: "I don't like it." ”
Everyone else is setting up characters non-stop, only Feynman has destroyed his and his father's characters to shreds, and he can still step on the ruins without getting enough of it.
In addition to these, Feynman's speech is also full of stalks, with his own jokes.
Because of these down-to-earth words and deeds, Feynman was regarded by everyone as a rare "living person in the entertainment industry" in a century, and soon attracted more than one million fans.
At first, Feynman enjoyed it, and began to frequently post jokes to share his daily routine, and even unguarded his weaknesses in public - "I have stage phobia and social anxiety, which is a secret that even Meowth and my family don't know." ”
It turns out that Feynman, who is introverted and timid in front of the camera, is not shy, but has a difficult psychological problem.
But while Feynman opened his heart and communicated frankly with everyone, more and more discordant voices emerged in the comment area.
Someone attacked Feynman's pain point of "fear of the camera" and coaxed him to perform on the show.
Some people complained that Feynman was too fat and accused him of not knowing how to manage his body.
Someone turned up the old things in "Where Are You Going, Dad" and criticized Feynman for being selfish.
But Feynman didn't take these words to heart. After all, he grew up under the training of Wu Zhenyu, the "king of mouth poison", and he has long had antibodies to general bad comments.
Until his father's speech on the show was maliciously interpreted because he was too fierce, Feynman was innocently implicated.
Feynman began to want to play a joke to relieve his father, so he said: "I am half Cantonese and half Fujian, so I can't help you." ”
But some netizens took Feynman's "bloodline" issue seriously, and some keyboard warriors directly labeled him - "Obviously, he thinks he is Singaporean." ”
Seeing that the patient explanation was in vain, Feynman had no choice but to say: "The Internet is a magical place, people who praise you one second may scold you the next." ”
After speaking, he decisively "retired from the network to save his life".
After spending so much time on the Internet, Feynman finally found that this place brought him more pressure than happiness, so he cut off his Internet personality and returned to real life.
This choice is to shield from excessive interference from the outside world and focus on self-growth, and it has also received strong support from Wu Zhenyu.
But unfortunately, in today's information flow**, not everyone can be as sober as Feynman.
Let the child become a steel plate.
And not cotton.
Recently, there was a hot meme on the Internet: "If you provoke me, you can be regarded as kicking cotton".
This is the helpless and powerless self-ridicule of those netizens who are offended to the border but are used to swallowing their anger. If you take a deeper look, you will find that most of the netizens who play this stalk have been tortured by endless internal friction.
In the face of today's rapidly changing and stormy network environment, being a "cotton" will only be beaten repeatedly, and only by becoming a "steel plate" can it be invulnerable.
Awakened netizens hit the nail on the head: "Instead of desperately consuming yourself internally, it is better to go crazy and consume others externally." ”
Yang Tianzhen, who has created countless public relations myths, has now become a "spiritual mentor" for young people.
Yang Tianzhen shared a unique skill to eliminate unhappiness in the show - revenge on the spot if there is a grudge.
Whoever upsets me, I displease him. ”
Someone blocked her, Yang Tianzhen would never "forget it", but bombarded the other party after adding WeChat, and then blocked and deleted the person to prevent the other party from replying.
As the saying goes, "endure breast hyperplasia for a while, go crazy and go crazy to the sea and the sky", this approach seems childish and rude, but it is indeed pleasant.
Yang Tianzhen's underlying logic to solve the problem is actually the same as Tianxin's sales account and Wu Feiman's withdrawal from the network, they are all trying their best to shield the outside world and please themselves.
It is true that tolerance is a virtue, but blindly giving in becomes weakness. As parents, we should let our children understand this truth as soon as possible.
There is a hot post: "Why didn't the good boy end well?" ”
One respondent mentioned a pair of twin brothers with very different personalities in a relative's family, the elder brother is sensible, and the younger brother is flamboyant.
When eating together, the younger brother always gives priority, and the elder brother eats the leftover fat and pork skin after the younger brother picks up. When he goes out shopping, his younger brother wants to buy new toys and new clothes, and he will be satisfied, but his brother never asks for it.
When he grew up, his younger brother was eye-catching wherever he went, and after graduating from secondary school, entrepreneurship flourished, and he was the focus of the crowd wherever he went. And Mu Ne's honest brother has become a good man, he doesn't squeak when he is taken advantage of, and he can't find a job after graduating from college.
This result is caused by the bias of parental education.
Parents taught their elder brother to be well-behaved and let their younger brother from an early age, but they ignored his brother's emotional needs. Growing up, my brother was used to being unnoticed and cared for, so he could only force himself to suppress his emotions again and again, and did not dare to express his true demands.
After such children enter society, they will fall into self-doubt when facing external oppression, and will unconsciously obey and submit to maliciously attacked.
In the long run, it is easy to develop psychological problems.
Whether it's on the Internet or in real life, we will always encounter difficult people and aggrieved things. In order to solve these problems, we must not treat them passively by shelving and evading, but must use our own strength to resist and fight back.
Instead of conforming to the expectations of others, it is better to live your own wonderful life.