The golden age for boys to choose a mate is 28 to 33 years old! Boys with poor family conditions, fi

Mondo Social Updated on 2024-03-06

Since ancient times, society has always demanded more from men than from women. Men must have the ability to provide for their families, have a stable place to live, and have the ability to shelter their families from the wind and rain. When a man lacks the ability to provide a basic subsistence, it is difficult for him to give his family enough happiness and security.

And now, in a first-tier city like Shanghai, the pressure on boys is even more doubled. On the one hand, there are unattainable high housing prices and stressful jobs, and on the other hand, girls in Shanghai generally pursue quality of life. Boys with poor economic conditions often look forward to girls.

The average age of first marriage in Shanghai in 2023 is 30 for boys6 years old. The age of mate selection for boys is 28-33 years old, and even 35 years old. I suggest that boys with poor family conditions find a partner later (of course, it does not include those who meet true love by accident).

The reason is very simple, boys with poor economic conditions, blind dates are usually hit over and over again, why bother to find guilt? Even if you catch up with your girlfriend early, you always spend money on dating for a few years, you have to spend money on meals, you have to give gifts during the New Year's holidays, and you have to travel with your girlfriend on holidays. Add to that the high cost of living in Shanghai, high rents, high prices, and high interpersonal costs, do you save money?

Then when you talk about marriage, what do you want, your mother-in-law asks you for a bride price, and you also deduct and search and bargain, people will think, why hasn't a boy saved any money after working for so many years? You're either lazy, or you're going to eat, drink, and spend money, or your family is too poor to suck your blood. In this case, how can people rest assured that they will marry their daughter to you?

Even more unfortunate, in case you talk for a few years and two people break up. When you look for a girlfriend again, and you go on a blind date again, and you don't have anything, people will think, this boy can't do it, he's been working for several years, he can't pay the down payment on the house, he can't get the bride price, he definitely doesn't have the ability, or he doesn't have a plan.

I've really seen more than one boy who has a salary that is not low, who works year after year, and has no savings. Ask him, where did you spend your money? A, I don't know, I just spend so normally, I have no money for dating my girlfriend, buying clothes, buying gifts, taking a taxi, and traveling.

Therefore, I personally suggest that boys with poor family conditions are generally 22-23 years old after graduating from bachelor's degree and 24-26 years old after graduating from graduate school. By the time you're around 30, you'll have an increase in your ability to work, your salary, and even your position, and you'll have already saved for a down payment. At this time, even if you buy a house in the suburbs, you can have a little initiative in the Shanghai blind date market.

The above views are only personal opinions, and if they are wrong, criticism and correction are welcome!

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