It may be that true love is indeed encounterable but not sought, and the encounter becomes a small probability event. And most people can't meet the right other half, so there are various blind date agencies, programs, venues, and activities, and the old people in the blind date corner will wander around with their children's resumes.
It's one thing to be difficult.
I am fortunate to have met a true relationship, the sky and thunder are on fire, but how much I am upset, how much I am annoyed, and I decide to be together to be able to tolerate the flaws in true love, all kinds of imperfections and even disillusionment, or a moment of repeated disappointment and collapse.
The characters in marriage are destined to have no dreams when they are in love, but the difference between Cinderella and around twelve o'clock in the middle of the night, and the kind of carriage that turns into a pumpkin.
For most sober girls, it feels like there is no need for trial and error.
True love is still like this, so forget about the blind date.
It can be a lot of responsibility.
From a carefree little girl to someone else's wife, daughter-in-law and mother, which title is not easy to complete, and it is a default contract with no time limit, and it is endlessly carrying these responsibilities forward, and doing it is a lifetime.
People will sympathize with the man who does not go home after work and sit in the car to smoke, but few people sympathize with the housewife who is almost collapsed in the face of work and family, thinking that all the efforts of women are natural, no matter how difficult it is for these three roles to play alone.
It may be that the shelf life of marriage is too short.
At most, one to two years of beautiful aura will disappear, life will show its true face, no one can guarantee what demon moths will appear in the family, in the words of Qing Dai, there are structural problems, in addition to pornography, gambling, drug violence, etc., various forms of derailment are already high probability events.
It takes a lot of tolerance, or you're going to be in a lot of battle.
It is possible to turn from a spy war drama to a horror movie.
Become the vanished her.
It may be that everyone is too tired of life.
Yes, life is becoming more and more efficient and convenient, but at the same time, we are also managed like an iron wall, rolled up to the point that we can barely breathe, and we are squeezed clean by the huge grinder of society, showing a bagasse-like physique.
At the moment when each other is exhausted, they both hope that the other person is the one who struggles to get up and make instant noodles. If not, then why should I be with you?
We're all refined egoists.
It may be that we all feel that others are unreliable, and we can only rely on ourselves.
So they all become single plants and grow individually.
We no longer believe in the power of cooperation, in back-to-back trust and persistence, in the story of self-sacrifice for love, and in the hope that the song of the rest of our lives brings us. The only thing we think of and deliberately arrange is ourselves.
We will believe in human obscenity, greed, selfishness, and doing whatever they want for the sake of profit, because this is closer to our understanding of human nature.
Because all we see are pig killing plates.
It may be that the marriage system is indeed a product of the patriarchal structure model, and it naturally does not adapt to the trend of the development of productive forces after the rise of feminism today.
At the same time, emotional value occupies the dominance of the value of family life, rather than the common development of economic value, so the inevitability of ** is weakening.
Maybe it's just that you don't want to have children.
So why are you still married?
Marriage