In life, there are always some people who are not going well, and the crux of the problem lies in one".DamnIn terms of words, relying on parents at home and friends when going out, this word makes people gradually form a dependency mentality.
When people have a dependency mentality, they will slowly weaken their enterprising spirit, their motivation is not strong, their natural action is not strong, and they cannot achieve the corresponding goals as a result, and then they will give up on themselves and fall into a vicious circle.
And a truly sober person will eventually understand that life can't always think about who to rely on, you have to live your own light, relying on no one is better than relying on yourself, only yourself is a reliable haven.
Depend on others for everythingReallyIt's a disaster. Relying on the mountains and mountains, relying on everyone to get old, relying on you to find that you are the last to rely on yourself.
Don't pin your hopes on others in anything, whether it's feelings or work, otherwise the only result is to be caught off guard.
In this life, people always think that they have something to rely on and hope for, so that their hearts can have a place to put and the road can go further, but in fact, everyone is the protagonist in their own world, and they can only rely on themselves to achieve it.
Relying on others for anything is tantamount to putting yourself in a crumbling attic, which may be a temporary farewell to the crisis, but behind it is full of risks.
Life is a thorny forest, grasping the corners of other people's clothes and slowly groping, it is easy to lose your way, only by yourself, can you usher in a beautiful dawn.
No one can be relied on unless youYesSelf-improvement. Who isn't busy in this world? Who doesn't get tired? Who doesn't have their own responsibilities to carry? Who is not an old man on top and a small burden on the bottom.
Everyone is independent and has their own future to work on, so don't think about relying on anyone, in fact, no one can be relied on, unless you are self-reliant.
Seeking people is like swallowing a three-foot sword, relying on people if they go to the nine heavens, life is a self-cultivation, sometimes confused and difficult, sometimes thorns and bumps, only when they are strong, can they keep the clouds open and see the moon.
No one is our eternal harbor, only ourselves, is our own other shore, rather than leaning on the shoulders of others to keep warm, it is better to fly against the wind, self-reliance and self-reliance.
OldCounting on others,Not as wellPromoted fromfIn this era of competition and efficiency, everyone is afraid of being eliminated, and they are desperately trying to improve themselves, for fear of falling behind, how can there be too much energy to pay attention to others, and it is good to take care of yourself.
It is better to improve oneself than to count on others, just like those really smart people never count on others, but strive to improve themselves in order to get their wish.
Don't take someone else's map, find your own way, only by yourself, the dilemma of life will be solved, in your own way, step by step from weak to strong, ** yourself, but also ushered in a rebirth.
Life is hard, only to get rid of the dependence on others, and constantly improve oneself, in order to resist the wind, frost, rain and snow of the long journey, after all, no matter how glamorous the co-pilot, it is better to hold the steering wheel tightly.
Relying on anyone is not as reliable as relying on oneself, and always pinning hope on others for everything is equivalent to giving up the right to make decisions in life and depriving oneself of the opportunity to grow.
Everyone wants to rely on the strong, but the real strong is actually themselves, the biggest nobleman will always be themselves, people stand in the world, it is better to seek others than to seek themselves, and it is better to be angry than to fight.
Never overestimate yourself, no matter how big other people's eaves are, they can't stop the rain on our heads, as long as we have our own umbrella, no matter the wind and rain, or the scorching sun, we can move forward fearlessly.
Writing is a kind of practice, and crossing others is also crossing oneself.
Focusing on emotional messages, some truths, some awakenings, and some heart-piercing, help you gain something, understand something, and gain something.
Move forward together, look at the heavens and the earth, see all beings, and find the true self.