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Some people say that the loneliness after the excitement is the loneliest, the day I returned to the city, it seems that the hometown has begun to permeate this lonely atmosphere, too strong contrast is always easy to cause a huge gap in people's hearts. Now, with the start of the school year for college students, it means that the last group of people who took a vacation are also starting to get back on track, and this year's Spring Festival holiday is completely over.
Recalling the New Year's Day in my hometown, fireworks and firecrackers seem to come more violently than in previous years, and it is not an exaggeration to say that there are non-stop bombardments from day to night, although it is a good sleep for a few days, but this atmosphere is really festive and lively.
Of course, there are still many people who say that the current New Year's flavor has faded, and it can't be said that it has changed, but it just feels different from what I remember. Perhaps, it is not because the taste of the New Year has faded, but because people's mood has changed.
The Chinese New Year's Eve dinner of the Chinese New Year's Eve has not changed, but when we eat a sumptuous meal, we do not have the happy satisfaction we had before, but some of the dullness of the process. When I was a child, the toys that were popular for the Chinese New Year were different every year, the styles of new clothes were changing, and even the amount of red envelopes received every year was also changing, but I still felt very happy when I thought about the New Year.
Changes will occur every year, if it is only a change in the objective environment, it will not affect our vision for the New Year, what really affects our perception of the surrounding environment, and even changes our view of the New Year, is our state of mind.
When I was a child, I was very happy and happy to have new clothes and new toys to receive red envelopes during the Chinese New Year. However, now that I have grown up and become mature and sensible, the meaning of the New Year has become complicated. The urging of family members, the comparison between peers, and even some nagging and quarrels within the family, these undercurrents hidden under the excitement may trigger our emotions, we begin to understand the trade-offs behind those piles and things, and occasionally feel the grievances that are not understood, so our mentality has changed, and we are no longer as fearless as when we were children, because we don't understand the truth behind those twists and turns, and we will not be bothered by these truths.
Being at home is no longer a haven of tolerance and care, but a center of stress, so going home loses its meaning, which may be the reason why young people don't like to go home for the New Year.
In fact, every generation has its own troubles, and as people continue to grow older, the meaning of the New Year for us begins to change, and we will slowly realize that the New Year is not just about eating, drinking, and having fun, but also about the responsibilities and pressures that come with the change of our identity. Our mentality is different, and the Chinese New Year is becoming more and more unflavored.
Life has been infinite from generation to generation, and Jiang Yue looks similar every year. It is never the years that have changed, but the generations of people who have gone from childhood to maturity and then slowly become old.