Life is a process full of flowers and applause, thorns and tears. There are many questions and answers.
Everyone writes their own life with the practice of life. Whether it is a worker, a farmer, a cadre, or a leader, although they have different occupations and different positions, their careers are all aimed at realizing the value of their lives.
The value of life is not measured by the great man or the commoner, the cleaner cleans the streets, bringing a beautiful and clean environment to the city, the civil servants are working hard, but also realizing the value of their own life, the ordinary shows greatness, the book of life will be brilliant.
How to make the flowers of life colorful and colorful, I think, the spirit of hard work, optimistic and indifferent mentality, is the foundation of success, whether it is the Ming Dynasty University scholar Hong Yingming said: "not sad or happy, not sad and not happy." Or what Fan Zhongyan said, "Don't be happy with things, don't be sad with yourself." The positive and optimistic attitude it shows is the most beautiful interpretation of the course of life.
Tolerance is a vast sea, which can tolerate but cannot be demanding, can tolerate all things, and can resolve all things. Because of tolerance, there are infinite paths, more friends, and fewer worries. Tolerance is an electrocardiogram of life and health, and it is also a beautiful passport!
On the contrary, if you don't know how to tolerate and understand, and have a mean and vindictive attitude towards the people and things around you, your interpersonal relationships will be tense and physically and mentally exhausted.
Recently, I read a book by the Ming Dynasty scholar Su Jun's "The Occasional Story of the Chicken's Song", which wrote: "Morality cultivates each other, mistakes are entangled, and friends are afraid; See the truth in adversity, trust life and death, and confidant friends; Sweet words, the conquest of the game, are friends; Friends with those who are friends. ”
In Su Jun's view, it is necessary to make more friends in distress, friends who dare to speak out and admonish, less friends who praise each other, and not friends who are enemies and friends on both sides. Yes, a person will always have a few friends in his life, preferably "close friends", and "fearful friends" are more precious.
In modern society, fame, power, money, and affection are everywhere, and everyone inevitably ignites the fire of desire and "rare stupidity", so in this case, if there are a few sober-minded "fearful friends" who give you advice, it is a very important thing.
Paul said in "How Steel is Made": "Life is the only precious treasure of mankind." Therefore, life should be spent in such a way that we look back on the past and do not regret that we wasted our time, and we should not be ashamed of our inaction. "Everyone wants to have a brilliant life, but they should not deliberately pursue brilliance!
Life is like an arithmetic problem, there are only 30,000 days in life, and every day that passes is one day less. Fame and wealth are nothing but things outside of the body. Add the light of wisdom, the power of personality, the accumulation of wealth, and the warmth of the family to life, so that life is more fulfilling. The subtraction of life allows us to get rid of the materialism and the chaos around us.
Lao Tzu said: "Misfortune is born from dissatisfaction, and sin is born from desire." "Contentment, moderation, gratitude, cherishing happiness, and avoiding misfortune mean that life should be subtracted, stay away from fame and fortune, look down on success or failure, be content with indifference, reasonably arrange the advance and retreat in life, and make life healthier.
It is not difficult to understand one thing in life, but if you want to do one thing well, you must pay careful attention to every step so that you can succeed. In a person's life, when you set a goal for yourself, no matter when, no matter what the situation, you must adhere to: do not give up, do not slack off, and do not let go of your own principles of life.
People live in the pursuit of dreams every day, stay away from the low-level fun of life every day, and are full of care and responsibility for society, work, colleagues, friends, and family every day. "Calm" can keep people rational and sober, and "proportion" is a person's most basic moral quality, in the face of anything, to keep calm, not proud, not impatient, always maintain a calm smile, with an equal gaze, to everyone around them, there is a deep and subtle feeling, anything, anything, can be solved.
I have not experienced the cold winter, where does the plum blossom fragrance come from, the hard work pays off, all the efforts are rewarded, and the results of every thing are reflected in the process. Think of everything as a process so that you can get things done calmly and naturally. As long as the goal is meaningful, no matter whether the process is bitter or happy, it is all beautiful!