Hello everyone, I'm Qin Chuan.
Each of us comes into this world alone, grows old alone, and dies alone.
No one can shelter anyone from the wind and rain for a lifetime.
Your hardships, your sorrows, and your pains will ultimately have to be borne by yourself.
Even your biological parents can't live your own life for you.
01.Be your own backer
In the ocean of life, we are all sailors, each piloting our own boat. Sometimes, the wind is calm and the sun is shining; Sometimes, the wind is surging and the waves are overwhelming. In this unpredictable voyage, the most reliable navigation light is not others, but our own hearts, and we have to be our own backers. Becoming our own backer means that in the wind and rain, we are no longer alone and drifting with the tide, but can stand firmly on our own position and bravely face the hardships of life. Whether it is a difficulty at work or a setback in life, we can rely on our own strength to overcome and overcome. Because we know that only we are the ultimate dependent. Being our own backer means that when we are confused, we can listen to our inner voice and find the right direction. In this age of information** and diverse choices, it is easy for us to get lost in the opinions and suggestions of others and lose our own direction. But when we become our own supporters, we can clearly hear the call of our hearts and find the path that truly suits us. 02.Don't expect others to be savedOn the stage of life, everyone plays their own role and experiences different joys, sorrows and sorrows. At times, we may be stuck in a difficult situation and crave redemption and help from others. However, true salvation does not come from the outside world, but from the strength within us. Don't expect others to be saved, because the path to salvation requires self-awareness and self-salvation. When we are in trouble, relying on others for salvation only deprives us of the opportunity to grow ourselves. True salvation requires us to face our weaknesses bravely, to look honestly about our past, and to actively plan for our future. The power of self-salvation is endless. When we decide that we no longer rely on outside salvation, we have already taken the most important step. We begin to learn to think independently, to solve problems independently, and to face the hardships of life independently. This power will make us more confident and stronger, and let us go further and more steadily on the road of life. Don't expect others to be saved, because everyone has their own unique path to salvation. Everyone's experiences, backgrounds, and values are different, and the way of salvation that suits them will vary from person to person. We can't blindly imitate others, we should find a path of salvation that suits us according to our actual situation. 03.Make yourself strongMaking ourselves strong means that we need to constantly improve and improve ourselves. In this era of rapid development, knowledge and skills are being updated at an ever-increasing rate. If we stand still, it's easy to be obsolete. We must constantly learn new knowledge, master new skills, and improve our overall quality and competitiveness. To be strong, we also need to have strong faith and willpower. On the road of life, we will encounter all kinds of ** and difficulties. If we lack strong belief and willpower, it is easy to lose our way and give up on moving forward. We must be clear about our life goals, strengthen our beliefs, maintain a positive attitude, and move forward bravely. 
Write at the endThe power of independence and autonomy is endless. When we become our own redeemers, we already have this power in our hands. It will help us to move forward on the road of life with courage and fearlessness. It will allow us to find a way out of difficult situations and achieve transcendence in the midst of challenges. Let's be our own redeemers! Let us use the power of independence and autonomy to change our destiny and create beauty. Believe in ourselves and believe in the strength of our hearts. We will definitely be able to become the helmsman of life and sail to the other side of success.