In this complex world, everyone is busy with life, and the road of life is often full of unknowns and variables. We often long to find a solid support, but reality tells us that the most reliable support is actually ourselves.
It's better to rely on nothing than on yourself. This is not a choice of desperation, but a manifestation of wisdom. Human nature, this unfathomable topic, contains both kindness and warmth, but also hides complexity and fickleness. We can't predict what others think and do, and we can't trust our fate entirely on others. There is no one who is the backer, this is a cruel but true fact. Everyone has their own responsibilities and difficulties, and we can't ask others to bear all the stress and pain for us.
Therefore, we should be our own backers. This does not mean that we have to isolate ourselves and refuse the help of others, but rather learn to be resilient and independent in the face of difficulties. When we encounter setbacks, we have the courage to face them alone instead of hoping for help from others. When we feel lost, be wise to find the right direction instead of blindly following in the footsteps of others.
The hardest and most difficult path is often walked alone. On this path, we will encounter all kinds of challenges and difficulties, but it is these experiences that make us stronger and more mature. Grievances are quietly digested by ourselves, which means that we must learn to remain calm and rational when we are wronged, and not let negative emotions occupy our hearts.
Stress is borne by ourselves alone, which means that we must learn to maintain balance and stability in the face of pressure, and not let it crush our will. Collapse is a self-healing process, which means learning to maintain hope and courage in the face of adversity, and not to let despair and abandonment take over our minds.
Many times, we yearn to be able to find someone who can empathize, but reality tells us that it is almost impossible. Everyone has their own life experiences and emotional experiences and is unable to fully understand and experience the pain and joy of others. Therefore, we must learn to face all kinds of difficulties in life alone, and learn to self-traumatize ourselves.
Even if the road ahead is dark and the process is difficult, we must continue to walk firmly. Because only by groping our way forward in the darkness can we cherish the arrival of light even more. Only through hardships and hardships can we better understand the true meaning and value of life. In this process, we must constantly save ourselves from fire and water, climb out of the abyss, and go to a place of light.
This does not mean that we should ignore the help and support of others. In the journey of life, we will meet many kind and enthusiastic people, and their help and support is our motivation and courage to move forward. But at the same time, we must also learn to remain independent and autonomous, and not rely on the strength of others to achieve our dreams and goals.
Relying on oneself is an attitude and an ability. Only when we truly learn to rely on ourselves can we remain firm and confident in life, calm and rational in difficult situations, and go further and more steadily on the road of life. So let's keep this in mind: "You must always remember that it is better to rely on nothing than on yourself." "Let us be our most solid support in the journey of life.