Love news blooms every day, and it is rare to really go for a long time without being separated, and friend A and her husband have always been used by us as emotional templates, they usually don't deliberately flash, there is no Internet celebrity proposal and no big money for a wedding, all the way is simple and simple, but every time it appears, it comes with pink bubbles.
And they turned out to be together for ten years next month, and when I chased A and asked me the secret of maintaining a relationship, he only gave me a simple answer: treat my lover as a friend. 」
How you get along with your best friend, you get along with your other half
How you get along with your best friend, you get along with your other halfa says.
So, I seriously thought about how I got along with a few sisters of ten years.
Good sisters are the only family haven, experience the highs and lows of life together, will complain to each other and celebrate various highlight moments together, can stick together 24 hours when they are free, and will make an appointment for dinner and party on important days, but the other party can also not disturb if they have an itinerary, they are busy with their own work, and they can get together again when they are free.
Because I understand that the other party is busy with work or goes to bed early, I will not be angry and want to break up because I reply to a message late or don't answer ** in the middle of the night; Even if you don't have contact for a while, it doesn't hurt the status in your heart, and you can be presumptuous but don't interfere with your personal freedom, because you are friends.
As soon as I fell in love, I changed my head
If you think that you care and love, you can ignore the sense of boundaries that you should have
Managing friendship and feelings are actually very similar, we love each other very much and experience ups and downs together, why can friends be friends for more than ten years, but boyfriends always break up in a year or two? Because we often change our heads as soon as we fall in love.
No matter how good friends are, each other is two people after all, from different families, with their own friends and jobs, and it is common for them to have different values and habits, but because they know that each other is irreplaceable, they will be more serious and tolerant of each other's differences.
But when it comes to her boyfriend, it becomes different, as if you care and love, you can ignore the sense of boundary that you should have as a human being, report everything, reply to the message later and the volcano erupts, you can't forgive if you don't know how to send red bean soup during menstruation, and you have to cry and cry when you force people away.
If there are some things that you are embarrassed to ask for a friend, how can you take it for granted to your boyfriend? This sentence simply woke me up with a slap.
Men are simple:
You can't give what you want, and you can't give what you don't want. 」
In fact, a man is very rebellious, and the less he deliberately asks for something, the more he can give it perfectly.
When you go out with your brother, let him be free and don't bother, but he will want to chat with you; Give him space when he's busy at work, and when he's done, he'll be like a wronged child coming to you to be coquettish.
The fairy elixir that my friend got from ten years of love cultivation, I will take it well this time.