One: There has been domestic violence.
Two: Look down on each other.
Three: Prolonged separation.
Four: There is basically zero communication, and as soon as you open your mouth, you will quarrel.
Five: Never think about each other.
Six: Sex life becomes cold, and there is no attraction and passion for each other.
Seven: Economic issues have become the focus of disagreement, and there is no common financial goals and values.
Eighth, there is a lack of consensus in important decisions, and it is impossible to reach common opinions and goals.
Nine: Mutual trust has been lost, and suspicion and suspicion have become the norm.
10. Instead of supporting and encouraging each other, it hinders each other's growth and development.
Eleven: Jealousy and envy of other couples' relationships begin.
Twelve: The presence of the other person has become a burden, feeling oppressed and constrained.
Thirteen: Mental and emotional communication has been cut off, unable to share inner thoughts and feelings.
Fourteen: Disgust and dissatisfaction with the other person's past and family background.
Fifteen: Begin to seek comfort and solace from the outside world, involving the appearance of a third person.
16. The two parties have different attitudes towards family responsibilities and are unable to share family responsibilities.
Seventeen: Verbal violence and quarrels occur frequently, and the moral bottom line is gradually ignored.
Eighteen: The bright spots in married life fade away, and the source of happiness cannot be found.
Nineteen: The other person becomes an emotional obstacle and is unable to develop a new emotional experience.
Twenty: Instead of pursuing the goals and dreams of life together, the ideological differences are getting bigger and bigger.
Twenty-one: Blaming and blaming each other becomes the norm in the family.
Twenty-two: Loss of respect and understanding for the other person, only endless quarrels and attacks remain.
Twenty-three: The friendship between husband and wife has disappeared and they have become strangers to each other.
Twenty-four: Inability to find security and warmth in the other person.
Twenty-five: Frequently engage in vexatious and critical behavior towards the other party.
Twenty-six: Can't tolerate the shortcomings and weaknesses of the other party, and only see the shortcomings of the other party.
Twenty-seven: No longer enjoying the time spent with each other, feeling bored and tired.
Twenty-eight: The happiness of the other party is no longer the source of one's own happiness.
Twenty-nine: No longer care about the other party's joys, sorrows, and sorrows, and lack the ability to empathize.
Thirty: The pressure and negativity felt by each other is increasing.
XXXI: Marriage has become a burden and a bondage, unable to give freedom and space.
XXXII. The personal growth and progress of the other party has become indifferent.
Thirty-three: The existence of the other party brings only pain and suffering.
Thirty-four: Feeling that the love of the other person has disappeared, leaving only emptiness and indifference.
XXXV: The accumulation of negative emotions leads to the emergence of physical and mental health problems.
Thirty-six: The expectations and requirements of the other party have been reduced to a minimum.
XXXVII. The joy of family life has turned into unbearable pain.
XXXVIII. The relationship between husband and wife becomes that of friends or relatives.
Thirty-nine: Unable to show his true self to the other person, he can only play a role and a mask to hide his inner pain and dissatisfaction.
Forty: There is no common future plan, and it is impossible to work hard for the happiness of the family.
These 40 signs reveal signs that the relationship between husband and wife is coming to an end. And these signs are not unique to other people's marriages, we are surrounded by cases of troubled relationships.
For such a phenomenon, we cannot just blame one person, nor can we blame the problem on external factors. Marriage needs to be maintained and operated by both parties, and both parties need to take responsibility.
However, these signs also make people wonder, how exactly did marital problems arise? Can we find some inspiration in this to provoke reflection and change in the status quo?
First of all, domestic violence is undoubtedly a serious problem, which not only causes physical and psychological harm to the victim, but also undermines the trust and interaction between the couple. The existence of domestic violence illustrates a serious deviation in the way couples communicate and solve problems.
Looking down on each other is also a common problem. In a long time together, couples will find each other's shortcomings and shortcomings, but we should learn to pay more attention to each other's strengths and solve problems by supporting and encouraging each other, instead of disliking and looking down on each other.
Prolonged separations and virtually zero communication are clear signs that a marriage is in trouble. If couples are unable to maintain good communication and a shared life trajectory, this will lead to psychological isolation and emotional alienation. Once communication is broken, the problem cannot be effectively resolved.
When the first opening is a quarrel, the relationship between husband and wife has completely gone off the rails. Quarrels are one way to solve problems, but if they become the only way to communicate, it means that both parties are not able to reach consensus and resolve conflicts through dialogue rationally.
A healthy and stable marriage requires both partners to look out for each other. It is not only about caring and paying attention to each other's joys, sorrows, and sorrows, but also about spending more time for each other in daily life. Only by working together for the happiness of the family can the marriage be stable and happy.
All these signs have triggered people to think about and discuss the relationship between husband and wife. How to avoid the problem of marital trouble, how to deal with disputes and disputes between husband and wife, all need to be taken seriously and resolved. Whether it is the joint efforts of both husband and wife or the help of a professional marriage counselor, they can find solutions and paths for the marriage to solve the problem.
In today's society, the prevalence of marital problems makes us have to think about how to create a good marriage environment. Only by maintaining good communication, mutual understanding and tolerance can the marriage relationship continue to develop healthily.