We often say, "Character determines destiny." ”People with good personalities seem to have good luck easily; And those who have flaws in character always suffer misfortunes.
Our temperament, temperament, and way of speaking are closely related to our good fortune.
Having a quick temper, a hot temper, and a loud voice may be secretly eating away at your good fortune.
People who are anxious are often anxious, seek quick solutions, can't stand the wait, and always want to see results immediately.
In the Analects, it is said, "If you want to be hasty, you will not reach it." ”The more you rush to achieve results, the more you will fail to achieve your goals.
For example, Xiang Yu in "The Legend of Chu and Han" is brave and aggressive, but he is extremely impatient, and he is often in a hurry because of a lack of long-term planning.
In the end, he fell into an embattled situation in the battle of Qixia and killed himself.
Impatient people are prone to make wrong decisions and miss opportunities because of their lack of patience and thoughtfulness, which hinders career success and the accumulation of good fortune.
In the long run, they are prone to anxiety and inability to enjoy the beauty of life, and the good fortune will naturally become farther and farther away from them.
As the old saying goes: "Harmony is precious, forbearance is high." ”Warning people to control their temper and value harmony.
Zhang Fei during the Three Kingdoms period is a typical example of a short temper.
He was known for his bravery and skillful fighting, but he was also known to be short-tempered.
He has been angry about trivial things many times, and he is often harsh and ruthless with his subordinates. This temper eventually led to him being killed by his men in his sleep.
People with a hot temper often lack patience and tolerance, and are prone to get angry over a small matter.
This not only makes the people around him feel stressed, but also easily triggers conflicts and conflicts, leading to tension in interpersonal relationships, and thus missing out on his support and help.
This short temper temper not only affects an individual's social and quality of life, but can also cause damage to physical health.
Lao Tzu said in the Tao Te Ching: "The sound of the great sound is the sound of the elephant, and the elephant is invisible." ”Truly powerful voices are often peaceful and unassuming. People with loud voices tend to come across as aggressive, and they always speak at a loud volume that makes people feel uncomfortable.
This loud and loud behavior not only affects the mood of others, but also destroys the harmonious atmosphere.
As the saying goes, "Reason is not in the pitch." ”Speaking justly is not about the size of the voice, but in the rational and peaceful attitude in communication is the most important thing.
People with loud voices tend to give the impression of lacking education and self-cultivation, thus losing the respect and trust of others.
On the road to good fortune, they often encounter obstacles because of their loud voice.
The ancients said: "Quiet self-cultivation, thrift to cultivate virtue; There is no ambition without indifference, and there is no far-reaching ambition without tranquility. ”Only by being at peace and being lenient with others can we truly attract and retain the beauty and luck in life. In the pursuit of good fortune and happiness, let us work together to overcome the three bad habits of being impatient, temperamental, and loud.
With a quiet and far-reaching attitude, welcome our blessings and success!