If you are poor, you will think about change, and only by stepping out of the thorns can you find yo

Mondo Psychological Updated on 2024-03-05

"Moon Order" cloud: "Everything is shocked, and the earthquake is thunder." "Therefore" is the stinging insect frightened and ran away. ”

Obviously, the sting is a node that seeks innovation and change to break the situation, and to get out of the comfort zone to solve the dilemma of growth and development.

In the previous rain text, we know that the rain solar term is located in the ninth hexagram of Kan hexagram and is postponed downward, and the stunning solar term is located in the sixth of the hexagram Kan.

From the hexagram, Yang Yao is the fifth, strong and upright, and is the best one among all the hexagrams. However, in the process of the development of things, from the initial stage to the ninety-five, there are ups and downs during the period, and the ninety-five years are cultivated to the positive fruit, which is the heyday, and it is not appropriate to act rashly at this time, but it is also necessary to be prepared for danger in times of peace. Therefore, the rain is in the ninety-five hexagram, and if it is not profitable, there is no blame, and it can be smooth if it does not fight or grab the humble mind and seeks development.

However, the six places on the hexagram are that things have developed to the extreme, their momentum has ended, the time has passed, and they are exhausted. When there is no way to advance, it is necessary to start thinking about the way to break the situation and prevent things from going to decay.

In the previous article, we also mentioned that the ancients set two solar terms in January, the beginning of the month is "festival" and the end of the month is "qi". "Jie" corresponds to change, while "Qi" is continuation. The sting is in the "festival" of the beginning of the month, so "flexibility" and "breaking the situation" are the main tones of the sting.

This is reflected in the natural phenology of the stinging insects coming out of the comfort of their nests, adapting to their new environment and welcoming new life. In the stage of life, it is reflected in the period when children bid farewell to the protection of their parents, go to school, adapt to the new environment, and learn new knowledge. In the stage of development of things, after a period of growth and accumulation, we strive to leave the comfort zone and go to a broader world, seeking opportunities in the changing situation.

However, change comes with pain and difficulty. Just as the child leaves the warm embrace of his mother and enters the strange environment to adapt to the fears that the strange crowd will face; As people struggle to get out of their comfort zone, they will face the hardships of learning new skills and the uncertainties they will deal with in the face of new environments. After all, opportunities are also accompanied by dangers, growth needs to be accompanied by labor pains, and development can not always be smooth sailing, growth and opportunities often come due to change.

Yu Minhong, the founder of New Oriental, once said: "The most important thing for a person is not to get out of a desperate situation, but to get out of the comfort zone." For Yu Minhong, the creation of New Oriental was completely unexpected.

For Yu Minhong, who was originally a professor at Peking University, the original life was calm and comfortable. As an English major, he only had four hours of classes a week, and he finished four hours on Monday, and then had six days at his disposal. Plus three months of winter and summer vacation every year. If he mixes up like this, he will soon be able to get an associate professor, and then he can get a master's degree and a doctorate to get a ** professor, and then the problem of housing can also be solved by Peking University. For those who are not very demanding, this is simply the work of the gods.

But he jumped out of the comfort zone of Peking University and founded New Oriental. The hardships at the beginning were self-evident, but in the end, he still achieved the myth of New Oriental. However, with the inflection point of the education and training industry in the past two years, the major education and training industries have fallen into difficulties, but what is unexpected is that New Oriental has ushered in another gorgeous turnaround, and the launch of Oriental Selection has quickly become a perfect model of industry transformation.

Just like Li Bai Shiyun:

The purple horse walked and hissed, and double-flipped jasper hooves.

The stream refuses to cross, as if it is a pity for the mud.

The snow is far away, and the sea of yellow clouds is fascinating.

Whip thousands of miles away, and you have to miss the spring boudoir.

It can be seen that Li Bai also knows that only by stepping out of his comfort zone can he self-commission and achieve achievements, but it is a pity that Shixian has never stepped out of his comfort zone in his life, although he has left his posthumous name, he has not been able to achieve his wish in his life.

When the earth thunders, the stinging insects can only be reborn when they get out of the warm nest.

And only by stepping out of the thorns in life can we find a new path for ourselves.

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