OneWhen you look down from the 80th floor, it's all beautiful, but when you look down from the 2nd floor, it's all garbage.
IINo one can go back in time and start over, but anyone can start today and write a completely different ending.
IIIIn any case, don't base your life on someone else, or when that person leaves, your life will collapse. You have to have something of your own, something that no one can take away, to sustain your life.
FourthIf there are whirlpools in life, it is teaching you to be strong. If you spend all your time and energy complaining at this time, then you have missed the opportunity to grow and transform.
FiveWhen you are valuable, you will be like a magnet, and friends and even former strangers are willing to turn around and be with you. Don't blame the reality of the world, making yourself strong is the best sense of security for yourself.
SixSeeing that someone's wall is about to fall, if you can't support it, then not pushing it is also a kind of kindness; Seeing others drinking porridge, you are eating meat, if you don't want to, then no, it's also a kind of kindness; Seeing people crying sadly, if you don't want to comfort them, then unhappiness is also a kind of kindness.
SevenOnce a person falls, even for a short period of time, God will take away your talent and power as quickly as possible.
EightBefore the age of 18, people are born with their appearance, and after the age of 18, their appearance depends entirely on their own cultivation. 10 years ago, we said that it was shallow to focus only on outer beauty, and 10 years later, we said that it is shallow to focus only on inner beauty.
NineLife advice: The fewer people you know, the better, don't get involved in the circle that is not suitable for you, one or two confidants are enough, calm down, don't bother anyone, other people's miracles have nothing to do with you, don't chase what you can't get, and never bother with what makes you angry.
XI saw many people clearly, but I couldn't debunk them at will; I hate many people, but I can't turn my face easily. Sometimes, life is about forcing yourself to become submissive and pampered.
XIIn the adult world, there may not be the word "easy", even if there are many sad things, they will swallow it in the stomach alone, because we know that we must learn to be strong when no one is distressed.
XIIMany injuries are inherently one-off, and it may be because of your permission and your obsession that it is like a saw, constantly pulling on your heart, and the person holding the saw tightly is actually yourself.
XIIILiving for a day is a blessing and should be cherished. When I cried that I had no shoes to wear, I found someone who had no feet.
XIVNot all hard work will pay off, but everything is worth trying, and you won't regret it. Do your best, live up to the time, listen to the destiny of heaven, do not embarrass yourself, succeed gratifying, and have no regrets if you fail.
XVIf there is less speech, there will be less natural disaster; Less food in the abdomen, less natural diseases; If there is less desire in the heart, there will be less natural sorrow; There is less to do, and there is naturally less suffering; Great compassion has no tears, and great enlightenment has no words. It is a pity to come to the fate, and the fate is exhausted, and it is round with the square, and you are comfortable everywhere.
XVIChasing after tomorrow with yesterday on your back will exhaust every moment. Only by walking and forgetting can we feel the happiness that comes to us, and the worries do not stay overnight, and the forgetfulness is happy.
XVIIDon't always moan without illness, don't always say that you are so pitiful, everyone has been hurt and shed tears, not necessarily you are more painful than others, but you express it more wonderfully.
XVIIIThere are some things that you may not be easy to let go of. Some small things, if you think too much, they become big things. There are some details that become tragedies if you think about it again. To put it mildly, it's all fantasy. Therefore, people are tired and tired. Be a man and take it easy.
XIXYou can get rich overnight and not worry about money, but you won't understand how to spend money overnight.
XXHappiness is always mixed with those elements of sorrow. What kind of person you are, what kind of songs you hear, what kind of writing you see, what kind of words you write, and what kind of people you meet.
XXIHuman desires are strange, and many times they crave something, but they quickly lose interest when they get it. He clearly holds something that others envy in his hands, but he is always envious of others' hands. We yearn for the distance, but the distance is a place that others are tired of. Perhaps, only after going through the world, will we understand that what we have in front of us is what we should really cherish. Because: the distance is the scenery, and the near is life.
XXIIMany times you don't realize that after experiencing something or meeting someone, it's like a different personality and quietly saying goodbye to your old self.
XXIIILife is a long road, if there is really no one to accompany you on a lively walk, you have to say to yourself who is always alone, just go through this period, there are better scenery and better people waiting ahead.
XXIVIf your life is centered around money, you will live a heavy life; If your life is child-centered, you will have a hard time. If your life is centered on love, you will live a tangled life; If your life is centered on comparison, you will live a miserable life; If your life is centered on tolerance, you will live happily; If your life is centered on contentment, you will live happily!