The rich have distant relatives in the mountains, and the poor in the downtown no one asks.
Everyone wants to be rich, and there are many people around you who give them praise.
However, there are always people who live in debt and have no one around them.
When encountering the poor, many people will take a detour, fearing that they will borrow money or get involved because of some bad things.
It is human nature to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, and it is human ability to save people from distress.
If you look closely, you will find that there is a kind of person who is in debt, but it is worth associating.
Debt, only to see real character.
In the "Analects", it is said: "The year is cold, and then the pine and cypress are withered." ”Usually, when we interact with people, we will keep smiling and grinning, and we will praise each other. If you have any suggestions, most people will agree.
Hypocrisy is a common problem in social interactions.
Those who are destitute have to live authentically, like a cough, they can't hide it.
A person's attitude towards "poverty" is his truest character.
People with very bad character tend to be like this - I am poor and owe money everywhere, and I should be; The poorer, the more ostentatious; I'm poor, so you have to help.
People with good character will not default on their debts when they are in debt, but reflect the integrity of life and the light of humanity.
I've seen a real message.
In Songjiaqiao Village, Ansha Town, Hunan, Chen Ganwu, who is over 70 years old, tried his best to help his son repay his debts, and also endured all the hardships.
My son suffered from liver cancer and borrowed medical expenses from relatives and friends one after another. As a result, the family debt was 260,000 yuan.
The money was spent, but the son was not saved. Chen Ganwu said to the creditor: "No matter how hard it is, I will pay back the money." ”
Over the years, Chen Ganwu has relied on raising cattle and working part-time to repay the money. At the same time, he also made a lot of good Samaritans, helping to sell cattle and introduce jobs, and creditors did not collect debts, giving him more buffer time.
As long as you save money and work as much as you can, even if you save twenty or thirty yuan a day, after a few years, you can still turn over.
Poor people who always think about paying off their debts know how to love and appreciate someone. Although the ability is not big, it is a sincere appearance, which is distressing and also transmits the positive energy of the society.
Debt is the beginning of life.
Economically, there is a law of bottoming out.
When the ** of a thing falls to the lowest point, it is seriously lower than the actual value. Therefore, people are very keen on such things, so as to lift the ** up.
It's the same with life, it's the ultimate poverty, but it's just a new beginning. It's like walking a "V" shaped road.When Zhao Kuangyin was young, he was very chivalrous, but he was very poor. When he was hungry and thirsty, he found an old man and brought some watermelons.
After eating the watermelon, there was no money in his pocket, so he cheekily said, "The watermelon is not sweet." ”
The old man said, "I didn't expect you to have no money."
When Zhao Kuangyin became the emperor, he gave the old man 10,000 acres of fertile land in return.
The most difficult thing to be a man is to "know the shame and turn back the prodigal son". But after this difficulty, you can completely change your appearance.
Zeng Guofan, the minister of the late Qing Dynasty, participated in scientific examinations many times before entering the officialdom, and he did not enter the Jinshi. He returned home from the capital, and when he reached the halfway point, he found himself penniless.
In order to go home, Zeng Guofan found his father's old friend and borrowed a hundred taels of silver. In Nanjing, he bought history books with silver.
When he got home, Zeng Guofan's father said, "It's okay to buy books, but you have to read them." ”
In the next scientific expedition, Zeng Guofan lived up to expectations and started the first step of his rise.
In fact, being in debt is a kind of pressure, which makes people sleep poorly, eat poorly, and be full of money and pay back.
When you do things under pressure, you will find that you are more active than before, and you force yourself to be careful and not make any mistakes.
As Ernest Hemingway said, "A man can be destroyed, but not defeated." ”The life that can reach the bottom is like a tree that survives the winter, when the spring breeze comes, it spits out green shoots and has a glimmer of life.
When summer comes, life will flourish. The most valuable thing is that after a cold winter's life, it will become an "evergreen" from now on.
Helping people in debt is actually leaving a way out for themselves.
In the late Qing Dynasty, there was a businessman who, after his business failed, approached the wealthy Hu Xueyan and hoped to mortgage the remaining assets.
Hu Xueyan decided to buy assets in the market, and said: "When you are developed, you can redeem it at any time." ”
The merchant was very grateful, took the money and began to look for a way out.
Hu Xueyan has a famous saying: "Everyone has a rainy day without an umbrella." ”"Poor" is the "yardstick" to test emotions: whether the poor will be a fool; Rich people don't give alms.
Most people like to observe that the poor "should not be old men", but do not think about what they have to do and whether they can extend a warm hand.
Stories like this often happen all around us.
The young people in the village want to go to work, but they don't even have the money to pay for the journey. If you find a way to make up for the passage for the young people, then when it comes to the Chinese New Year, the young people will not only pay back the money, but also bring gifts to thank you.
If you also go to work in other places, young people will do their best to help introduce you to a job.
Borrowing money at once, allows you to get a cascade of benefits.
Life is full of ups and downs. How can you bear to see others sinking and eating and drinking on the shore? If after a while, someone else stands up, and you go to invite someone to eat and drink again, I'm afraid that the other party will already be chilled and won't come to shout.
Be a man with a pattern, give a little care to the poor, you will feel better, and others will be rewarded.
Writer Xi Juan once wrote: "You must know that the princess in distress who is too ugly, even if Prince Charming appears, he will not come to the rescue, let alone hope that he will be loved at first sight." ”Socializing with people who are in debt is a two-way street.
The poor have backbone and morality, and the rich have love and pattern. In this way, a mutually reinforcing social relationship is formed.
No one can save such a person who is poor and can't afford to sit on the ground, or escapes from reality.
All in all, everyone has difficulties, don't be too indifferent.