I found that in the family where I gave birth to a son now, my parents-in-law are so humble!
Although my husband and I are from the same county, we met while working outside, fell in love freely, and then got married and had children.
My husband's family has always been very kind to me and very polite, in other words, polite, I am a guest at home.
My husband and I both work outside the home and don't have time to take care of the children, so my parents-in-law are at home with the children. They are very willing, and at the same time, they are very careful to take my son, and if they fall or bump a little, they will blame themselves, for fear that I will be angry.
Every time I go home for the Chinese New Year, I will prepare gifts or cash for my parents, but I never give anything to my parents-in-law. And every time I came back, my in-laws happily prepared everything for us and never complained.
My husband is a big grinning person, and he generally has no opinion on what I say. Therefore, we often celebrate the New Year at our parents' house.
The in-laws were a little reluctant, but they never said a word, and they prepared for us for the New Year.
Cooking at home is all accommodating to my taste.
I never do laundry and sweeping the floor, let alone farm work.
As soon as I frowned, they would self-reflect on what they had done wrong, and it would make me unhappy.
The daughter-in-law of the next door is even more terrible, she cries and makes trouble at every turn, and it is useless for their husband's family to persuade and say good things. I also often talk about divorce.
The whole family was made into a miasma by her alone.
Looking at the other daughters-in-law in the village, they are also about the same virtue, and several are divorced.
In a word, if the daughter-in-law is unhappy, the family will not have a good life!
Sometimes I think, the current daughter-in-law is so horizontal, and the father-in-law and mother-in-law really have no status!
I sometimes reflect: My in-laws really don't have to say anything about how they behave, but I still do my own thing, and their family takes everything according to the order, and they don't dare to make mistakes.
In front of their daughters-in-law, they are really humble.
And I gave birth to a son, and when he gets married, my husband and I will become parents-in-law, and when the time comes, will we be so humble?
I really don't want that.
Is that the case with you?