Contemporary college students "gnaw at the old": it is difficult for parents to do a good job in graduate school.
Introduction. In contemporary society, the new form of "gnawing the old" is quietly emerging, and many graduates have chosen to apply for public service or continue to study for a master's degree. However, on this difficult road, parents have paid the price for their children's graduate school entrance examinations, but they have gradually fallen into the state of "pension is a luxury". The article analyzes the causes and effects of "a person with a master's degree has become a luxury".
The participation of college students in the postgraduate examination has attracted the attention of parents.
When it comes to preparing for the upcoming graduate exams, parents have the best back. If the family has the ability, they will not hesitate to spend a lot of energy and financial resources to help their children complete their dreams of going to graduate school. However, it always backfires. Soaring dormitory costs, living costs**, and increased rental costs have all put a huge burden on families. Some universities simply do not arrange dormitories for graduate students and let them find them on their own, which increases their financial burden.
1. The arduous process of parents for their children's graduate school entrance examinations.
Many families bear a huge financial burden, and the average family has to save money to get their children to complete a master's degree. Parents pay silently, although at the expense of family and friend reunions, trips and holidays, but they are all voluntary, just to give their children a better future.
2. The tuition fee for graduate students is on the high side.
The three-year master's program, whether it is a regular university or a 985 university, adds up to tens of thousands of yuan, which is a great financial pressure for ordinary families. In order to give their children a better learning condition, parents have to be careful and frugal, hoping that their children can get ahead in this cruel world.
The real dilemma behind the work puzzle.
In the process of job hunting, more and more people are choosing to go to graduate school instead of a path to success. The demand for graduates is gradually increasing, resulting in graduates who cannot go up, go down, and find it difficult to find jobs. Many people have to put down their bodies and do some work that they don't like, which brings a big obstacle to their careers. At the same time, with the continuous change of China's economic system, there are fewer and fewer job opportunities in China, and the implementation of the postponement of retirement system has further increased this pressure.
1. Parents' worries about the possibility of losing their jobs.
Unless a student is admitted to graduate school, or is admitted to their own graduate school, it is impossible for parents to retire with peace of mind. They are silently supporting their son behind their backs, but at the same time, they are also worried about their son. Work is becoming more and more difficult, and parents do not easily leave work aside, just to make the breadwinner of the family more stable.
2. Employment challenges and practical dilemmas.
It's no secret that students have different goals for graduate school, some want to find a job, some want to do research. In the preparation stage, self-discipline and perseverance will affect whether a student can smoothly climb to the top of life. However, passing the first round of exams is not the end, and the second round of exams is a hurdle that cannot be crossed. At present, college graduates are facing severe employment problems, and at the same time, they are also facing severe practical problems.
Individual plans and challenges to overcome.
On the road to graduate school, candidates have to meet challenges and loneliness alone. Without the company of his teachers and classmates, he can only rely on his perseverance and diligence to move forward. In the face of various external pressures and difficulties, college students should have rational thinking, make plans for their future, and be clear about their life goals and development directions. Give up the unrealistic idea of "hitting the big luck" and focus more on valuable things, and maybe after graduation, you will realize that it is not difficult to be admitted to graduate school.
Brief summary. A family studying for a master's degree, pension is a luxury", this sounds a bit mocking, but it is also true. Parents are silently supporting their children behind the scenes, but at the same time, they are also suffering and sacrificing. In the context of a new round of "gnawing at the old", the suffering of college students and the huge pressure from parents are real headaches. Every student should carefully consider their own goals and choices, make their own life plans, overcome difficulties, accept various challenges, and turn their efforts into the strength to achieve their ideals.