"The other is hell", a line from Sartre's play "Confinement", is like a mirror, reflecting the dark and complex corners of interpersonal relationships. It reveals how the restrictions, oppression, and torment of each other in interpersonal interactions can turn relationships into a painful ordeal. In real life, such scenes are not uncommon: because of contradictions, conflicts and incomprehension with others, we often feel pain and distress, and even sometimes feel that the existence of others is a kind of torture.
However, we don't have to be bound by this pessimistic view. In fact, interpersonal relationships are not only negative, but also contain many positive and positive elements, such as mutual support, understanding, and love. When we learn to see others differently, we can discover the beauty that lies beneath the surface.
Over the years, Fat Donglai Supermarket and its boss Yu Donglai have become popular all over the Internet. On the first day of opening after the Spring Festival, Fat Donglai became popular again on the whole network, and the scene was crowded, and more than 150,000 foreign netizens came to check in and buy. The moment the door was opened, people poured in like a tide, and in only 15 minutes, Fat Donglai had to limit the flow because of the excessive passenger flow, and it was also sold out in a short time. In the words of netizens, it is "cleaner than robbery!" This is also the only supermarket in the country that needs to wait for the number to enter! Yu Donglai's integrity management is not said in words, written on paper, and hung on the wall, but really implemented in action; He treats customers with genuine love; Treating employees, Yu Donglai himself said, "95% of the profits are distributed to employees, half of the management, half of the employees, to whom who is not willing to do it?" Give it to me and I'm willing to do it! ”
Yu Donglai can be said to be a true practitioner of the core values of socialism, a model for achieving common prosperity, and an outstanding entrepreneur whose ideological realm has reached a very high level. In contrast to the above-mentioned "others are hell", Yu Donglai can be called the representative of "others are heaven". His business philosophy and the way he treats his employees have opened people's eyes to the possibility of "others are heaven". Under his leadership, Fat Donglai Supermarket has not only achieved commercial success, but also become a caring and harmonious family.
Yu Donglai is willing to make all kinds of information about Fat Donglai Supermarket public and share his business philosophy with many entrepreneurs. However, despite the fact that many companies come to learn from the experience, there are very few entrepreneurs who can actually learn the essence and execute successfully. This is not because of how unfathomable Yu Donglai's concept is, but because his realm has reached a very high level. This realm seems to be unpretentious, but it contains profound philosophy and wisdom of life. Ordinary people often only learn the surface, and it is difficult to comprehend its essence.
Dale Carnegie once used the table of heaven and hell as a metaphor for cooperation and selfishness in human relationships, describing two scenes with the same table, food, and people but with two very different endings.
First, he describes a scene in hell. There, there is a long dining table with a variety of delicacies. Sitting around the table were a group of hungry ghosts. Each of them holds a pair of long chopsticks in their hands, the length of which makes it impossible for them to get food into their mouths. Even though the food was right in front of them, they couldn't enjoy it. Everyone tries to pick up food with chopsticks, but because the chopsticks are too long, the food always slips off the tips of the chopsticks. As a result, the hungry ghosts of hell are so hungry that they are yellow-skinned, even though the tables are piled with delicacies.
Carnegie then painted a picture of heaven. It was also a long dining table, also full of hearty food, and a group of people sat around the table. The difference is that after picking up food with chopsticks, people in heaven are not trying to put the food in their own mouths, but in the mouths of the person opposite. In this way, although the chopsticks are long, everyone can eat the food. The people of heaven cooperate with each other, feed each other, and everyone eats with relish and a smile of satisfaction and happiness on their faces.
In this era of competition and challenges, we need more "Yu Donglai-style" entrepreneurs and leaders. Not only can they succeed in business, but they can also create more value and harmony for society. Let's work together to transform the idea that "others are hell" into the reality that "others are heaven"!