Today's parents are really tired, and after giving birth to a child, they feel that when their children go to school, they can relax a little more and have their own free space.
But when the child officially goes to school, he will find that the real suffering has just begun.
Brushed up on a hot entry: Parents complained that they were required by the school to be on duty in the afternoon.
On February 28, a chat map in Zunyi, Guizhou Province sparked heated discussions.
Parents complained about a primary school asking parents to go to school on duty when their children get out of school at 3 o'clock in the afternoon, and they conflict with their own working hours, hoping that the relevant departments will manage it.
The head of the parent committee explained that it was to do safety management at the school gate, and each parent had to take turns once a semester, one hour at a time, which was a matter of safety, and parents should cooperate with it.
Regarding this matter, many netizens left messages saying that they were not surprised, after all, there is too much formalism now, and it is not bad for this one.
Of course, some netizens said: This guard is a volunteer, you can refuse if you don't want to! If you don't do this volunteer, no one should be forced to do it! That's the student guard post, for the safety of students after school has increased manpower, there are leaders on duty at the school gate, teachers on duty, guards, etc., can you not listen to the wind is rain.
But have you ever thought that instead of the label of "volunteer", everything has a high-sounding reason, and who is responsible for the problem?
If a student has an accident during the nursing post, will the parents of the nursing post be held liable? If there is an accident among the parents of the nursing students during the nursing post, will the school be held responsible?
Coincidentally, how did the operation of this parent standing guard achieve national uniformity? Although it is a good thing to be more involved in the growth of children, many families are dual-income workers, how to cooperate?
If you don't participate, will other parents have opinions, and will teachers have opinions about your child? Is it unfair to the unit to go and unfair to colleagues?
Parents complain about standing guard, in addition to feeling tired for parents with children, and tired for their colleagues, such things have long become a popular trend across the country, and I don't know who suffers from those jobs with the same position and the same salary!
They all work the same shift and earn the same money in the same unit, some work 8 hours, and some work 6 hours; Some people don't have to ask for leave and don't deduct wages, do you say it's fair?
There is a more important point, although the nursing post is a voluntary service, voluntary behavior, and the local education bureau has also responded that the principle of voluntariness is not to go.
But parents with children understand that you try not to look. If you don't participate in the activities organized by the school, will your child be treated differently?
Try one without squeaking!
In the past, parents only had to make money to give their children the opportunity to get an education, and as for their children's learning, that was something that schools and teachers should worry about.
And today's children, as long as they enter the school, what they will learn and what their moral character will be in the end has little to do with the school and teachers, and everything needs to be paid by the parents themselves. After all, the family of origin and genetics can explain all incurable diseases!
If you complain and let your parents worry about it, then why do you want teachers?
Don't ask, just ask, "There are so many children, how can a teacher manage them?" ”
Yes, the current teachers are indeed quite busy, what are they busy doing? is busy reporting to school leaders, making PPTs, evaluating job titles, and cooperating with formalism, but I don't have time to devote myself to educating children.
As a post-80s generation, I remember that when I was a child, I went to school, and the only part that required parental participation was the parent-teacher meeting. Today's children go to school, and parents need to be involved in the whole process.
I don't know when it started, parents began to be "kidnapped" by the school, teachers, and the parent committee.
Homework needs to be corrected by parents, hygiene needs to be cleaned by parents, blackboard newspapers need to be designed by parents, handicrafts need to be made by parents, books need to be distributed by parents, and parents need to stand guard when crossing the street.
In addition to the fact that parents don't have to eat or chew and feed their children in person, I really don't know what other things in the current school can't be passed on to parents.
Let's just say that parents are very busy nowadays, and the problem of ignoring their children's education does exist, but it is okay to help occasionally, but there are many things to check in and take leave according to the work schedule, so how do parents work and live?
This reflects the problem of modern education, everything is tied to parents, and all kinds of parent-child homework are actually parents'.
All of the above, even I, a single and unmarried person, feel panic and big head when I look at it, I really want to give a thumbs up to those two-child and three-child families, who dares to have a second child this year!
In the words of netizens, as long as there is a child now, there is a weakness, being pinched by the school, by the society, and by the hospital.
I have to say that the current school education does not involve parents too much, you must know that not all parents are qualified and can educate their children, and professional things should be left to professional people.
The most effective engagement is when a more effective communication mechanism can be established between the school and parents, and a balance can be found so that parents can participate in the work of the school without placing an undue burden on parents.
But in today's schools, there is nothing that parents can't do in their concept by letting parents check the class queues, divert traffic, and stop vendors near ......kindergartens
Although it is good for parents to participate in school management, the mandatory requirements undoubtedly increase the burden on parents, and do enough superficial work, but do not solve the actual problems, and in the long run, it can only make the contradictions bigger and bigger, the contradictions between schools and parents, parents and children, and parents and passers-by.
Because there are always some parents who are too involved in school affairs, they will use chicken feathers as arrows, and a parent committee can perform a palace fighting drama. It seems that as long as it is related to children, it can be used as an excuse to do all kinds of overbearing things.
For example, when it comes to picking up and dropping off children, many schools are blocked at the end of the school gate, because parents will choose to park their cars on the road in order to let their children get on the bus as soon as they leave the school gate. Every lane is jammed with traffic, and it is impossible to drive until the parents have finished.
Obviously, there is a parking lot thirty or fifty meters away, and I am afraid that if I take a few more steps, I will break my leg, so I have to park on the road for you and paralyze the traffic.
Don't complain, if you complain, it's "pick up and drop off children, everyone else stops like this!" ”
It's really an outrageous brain circuit, can it be said that if everyone does something illegal together, it is legal?
Sometimes those passing vehicles accidentally scratch, they will also justifiably say that they are picking up children, and it is natural to stop, as if the traffic law is of no use to parents for illegal parking, and all responsibilities can be left behind.
A few days ago, a colleague of mine drove past the kindergarten that happened to be out of school, and during normal driving, a parent car parked on the road in the opposite direction also started at the same time, and the colleague's car accidentally rubbed into the other party's rearview mirror.
Although the other party was parked on the road in the wrong direction, he used "picking up and dropping off children" as an excuse as soon as he came up, and he didn't feel that there was a problem with his car parking, and finally stalemate for an hour, and his colleague was blackmailed with 50 yuan to settle the matter.
This matter is really difficult to evaluate, the school will pass on the responsibility to the parents, the parents will transfer the contradiction to the society, "home-school linkage" is never a false proposition, the boundary needs to be agreed by many parties, but it makes parents generally uncomfortable, causing inconvenience to others, it must not be in the boundary.