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1.No more contact.
The silence of the night made me realize the fact that a friend's avatar no longer jumps on my phone screen.
It is we who are forced to say goodbye to the past in the impermanence of the world.
The silent silence made me feel a kind of loneliness.
It was as if after the last movie at midnight, everyone left, and the lively venue fell silent in an instant.
We once shared the laughter and dreams of youth, and were a ray of warmth and glory in each other's lives.
It's a pity that the hourglass of time passed quietly, and we went crazy and laughed and saddened together, but after all, we couldn't withstand the passing years.
As the famous Mo Yan said:There will always be some people and some feelings that will be separated in the gradual distancing. If one day you find that a person neither contacts you nor blocks you, there is only one reason, and that is that you are no longer important.
After a long period of memories and sentimentality, I finally realized:
This is not due to simple negligence or busyness, but more likely to be a tacit parting with each other.
2.Drifting away.
Back in the year we graduated, we said we would keep in touch no matter how our lives changed.
At first, we really did.
Whether it's the weekend or when we have free time, we send messages to share our new lives in our new cities.
However, as time goes by, the frequency of contact has become less and less frequent.
From a few times a week to once a month, to a few times a year.
Years later, as if to make up for our thin friendship, we both tried to bring us closer with those shared memories.
Unfortunately, despite our efforts to find a topic, each other's responses began to grow cold and stiff.
Maybe we don't want to admit it, but friendship is sometimes phased. As reluctant as we are, we must learn to accept because everyone is constantly growing.
I can't deny that the friendship between us has long since ceased to be strong.
We once performed the bustling noise of youth on the same stage, but we chose to leave silently one after another.
The changes in life make the trajectories of life intertwined, and we each enter new skies, meet new partners, and face new challenges.
This is not a hostility between us, but an inevitable growth in the river of human growth.
3.Let go at the right time.
There's a good saying: sometimes, letting go is a higher level of ownership.
Some people don't contact you and quit your world, so wave your hand to him in your heart and say goodbye, there is no need to stay. Instead of struggling with it, it is better to exit with dignity.
Perhaps, it is a revelation of our personal growth, an elegant curtain call to pave the way for a new story.
Life is a journey, some people come into our world, others fade out of our sight.
Although we don't want to, sometimes we have to learn to accept that the people we were once close to are drifting apart.
Because, not all companionship can last forever, and not all companionship can last long.
The street that is most familiar with you and me is already a person who goes to the sunset.
Letting go at the right time is so that you can find a more suitable companion and experience a fresher world.
Everyone has their own life and needs to find their own happiness.
4.Everyone is well.
In the future, we will be like planets separated from each other, orbiting in different orbits.
Those who can't go back are called far away, and those who can't go back are called the past;
What you once had is called memories, and what you are okay with is called parting.
Nietzsche saidIn parting, we become fuller.
There are always many unexpected encounters and reluctant partings in life, and what remains in my heart is the most beautiful scenery.
Those who have shared happiness, shared hardships, and weathered the storm together, they may have left you, or they may be hidden in your address book and have not been seen for a long time.
Fade out of your field of vision, fade out of your life.
But the imprint they left behind will remain in your heart forever like a beautiful and moving movie.
Those people, those things, those laughter and tears are all treasures in life.
In this world, all encounters and separations will make people grow and make life more fulfilling.
So, be in awe, be nostalgic for the past, cherish the present, and look forward to the future.
No matter how ups and downs life may be, may you and I have someone who can walk side by side with you at every stage of our journey.