Parenting is full of challenges, and adolescence is one of the most sensitive and challenging stages in a child's development. Children during this period may have problems such as mood swings and rebellious behavior, which will bring a lot of pressure and distress to parents. But how should parents accompany their children through the rebellious period of adolescence? Because you need to know that companionship and guidance are essential for the development of children in adolescence.
Last weekend, I went for a walk in the park with my family and saw a couple arguing with a fourteen or fifteen-year-old. The boy said angrily, "You don't understand me! The parents persuaded, "Why are you so disobedient?" This scene made me think deeply about how to accompany my children through the rebellious period of adolescence, which became a very important topic.
We need to understand the causes of adolescent rebellion. Adolescence is a critical period for children's physical and mental development, they begin to think independently and pursue self-identity, but they also face social and academic pressures. These pressures can lead to emotional instability, rebellious behavior, and resistance to their parents' words.
Knowing why, we can better cope with adolescent rebellion. The first is communication. It is very important to establish a good line of communication with your child. Parents should listen to their children's thoughts and feelings, not blindly emphasize their own opinions, but respect their children's opinions. When communicating with your child, be calm and not impatient or angry. I suggest that I find a professional to consult to solve this problem, I came here like this, the child really can't be disciplined well, we are looking for itGaotu beautiful family, Special thanks to Mr. Song Li, the method is too in place!
Teacher Song Li is a national second-level psychological counselor, the content is simple and easy to understand, and can also propose different solutions to different problems of parents. Don't just see the child's shortcomings, but also see the child's shining points, for example, although my daughter's grades are not top-notch, she has a strong learning ability, and she can remember the knowledge points that the teacher has talked about as long as she listens carefully.
I learned a lot of family education knowledge from Mr. Song Li, realized my wrong way of education, and finally knew how to get along with my children correctly, and now I am more like friends with my children.
The second is to respect the child's independence. Adolescent children crave independence and autonomy, and parents should give them appropriate autonomy. For example, giving children a certain amount of autonomy in their studies and lives gives them the opportunity to make their own choices and decisions. Of course, this requires parents to silently support and guide behind the scenes, rather than directly interfering and guiding.
Parents should give their children enough love and support. During this difficult stage of adolescence, children need to feel the warmth and support of their families. Parents can spend more time with their children, care more about their life and emotional changes, and give comfort and encouragement in time. Even when children exhibit rebellious behavior, parents should firmly express their love and support for them, letting them know that no matter what happens, the family will always be their harbor.
In addition to the above points, there are some tips that can help parents better accompany their children through the rebellious period of adolescence. For example, parents can participate in some interest classes or activities with their children to enhance mutual understanding and communication. You can also communicate with your child regularly and share each other's thoughts and feelings. In addition, parents can also learn about adolescent psychology through books, the Internet, etc., to better cope with their children's emotions and behaviors.
So how to accompany children through the rebellious period of youth, when we encounter children rebellious, do not panic, do not confront them, but think calmly, listen patiently, and face it with an attitude of understanding and support. Let us use love and wisdom to guide our children to the path of maturity and stability, so that they can be accompanied and guided by us during the rebellious period and grow strongly.