Wine is a medium to reach "oneself".
They raised their glasses.
For herself, but also for the people and things she loves.
Wine is free, and so are you
There's no reason for it, it's just because I like it.
@大净
I used to work in a Fortune 500 company, after the birth of a comeback, the child was always sick when he was a child, the immunity was poor, and my mother-in-law thought that I only cared about work and did not care about my family, and the more panicked I worked, the more I always went wrong.
During that time, I was physically and mentally exhausted, and I wanted to give up my job and become a stay-at-home mom again and again.
Later, I complained to my best friend, and she said that she invited me to drink "anxiety relief water".
When I got to the place, I watched her slump out of the trunkMoved a case of Tsingtao beer.
She said that she grew up drinking beer, and when she was thirsty, she had a drink, she was happy to touch a glass, and she had a salty drink, and there was no reason why she could also have a drink, so let me try it too, maybe it has the effect of enlightenment.
In the past, some people always talked about her, what kind of wine do girls drink.
"I want to drink myself, what does it matter to them, all you care about is what you think in your heart. ”
That night's wine seemed to really give me an epiphany. I started to be active, bringing my mother from my hometown to take care of the children with my mother-in-law, and my work gradually became smoother.
Now, I still often ask my girlfriends for a drinkThere's no reason for it, it's just because I like it.
Becoming a mom is an extra identity, not a part of giving up a part of yourself.
@宋建丽
When I first found out that I was pregnant, my first reaction was, "You can't drink alcohol at the evening party."
I love beerAfter becoming a mother, there are a lot of taboos, not only has a light diet, but also gives up the "unhealthy" foods such as barbecue and spicy hot, and opens the refrigerator to deliberately bypass the beer and choose milk.
I survived the pregnancy and confinement in this way, and on my birthday, I finally couldn't help but start with the can of beer that I had been hungry for a long time, but unfortunately my husband found out.
My husband immediately condemned me for this "selfish" behavior, snatched the beer, and drank it all in one go.
The moment the beer can was empty, I broke down and cried. Then I thought about it,At that time, it was not a can of beer that was wronged, but I felt that I had lost myself.
During that time, I was full of anxiety, worried that I would not be able to be a mother and wronged myself from time to time, and my family and friends enlightened me after noticing my emotionsEncourage me not to be trapped by the identity of "mother", and to be a mother first.
As soon as the lactation period was over, my family and friends specially held a "beer party" for me.
Beer may not be a must-have drink in life, but it's a little hobbyThe day of drinking beer again is like a reconciliation between "I am a mother" and "I am myself".
40+, I've reconciled with my wrinkles.
It's going to be beautiful today, too.
Friends eat together, and when the meal is almost finished, everyone is together**, and then the dinner table suddenly is quiet,Everyone held their mobile phones and concentrated on retouching, here to fix the wrinkles at the corners of the eyes, there p to slim down the big face.
But to be honest, our group of 40+ middle-aged women, no matter how much they retouch, they can't make a little girl as young and tender (ps, it may also be that the level of retouching is really bad), and the topic unconsciously began to turn into eye lines and nasolabial folds.
Suddenly, a friend threw a **, that is, we laughed with a wine glass, no retouching and no filter, the light shone on our relaxed smile, the wrinkles at the corners of the eyes were so clearly visible, but it was the eyebrows and eyes with a smile shining.
At that moment, I was really beautiful by myself. Under the slight drunkenness of alcohol, the whole person looks so relaxed and natural.
So, I put down my phone, picked up my glass, and drank it down.
Finally, I reconciled with my wrinkles.