The Amazing Law of Cause and Effect The greatest success of a man is to cross the "pillow man".
There are many examples in history that if a man treats his wife badly, he may not only lose the stability of his family relationships, but also lose respect and opportunities in society and the workplace. Just like that Wu Yihuang in the Tang Dynasty, although he was talented and had extraordinary achievements, he eventually led to his own failure and tragic end because he treated his wife poorly.
Nowadays, there has been a change in social attitudes that are no longer tolerated by men who are unfaithful to their wives, who abuse their wives or neglect their families. Whether in the workplace or in social circles, such behavior will be deeply despised and spurned by people. In the business field, a man who does not know how to cherish his family, even if he achieves temporary success, will be limited and affected in the long run.
Therefore, for a man, if he wants to go further and more stable on the road of life, he must know how to cherish his wife and respect family relationships. Otherwise, even if you have achieved material wealth for a while, you will eventually find yourself losing something more valuable.
Women also have the wisdom to take measures to protect themselves if they find out that their partner next to them is cheating, such as leaving private money and considering the transfer of property. If the partner's behavior is excessive, divorce may be an inevitable option.
Under the divorce procedure, family property is redistributed. The original intact family business may be divided, leading to the difficulty of re-emerging.
The ancients said: "Husband and wife turn against each other, and they can't be in the right room." This shows that conflicts between husband and wife can affect the stability of the whole family.
Family breakdowns can be a heavy blow for men, especially when they come home to find it deserted.
The child is the most affected party in the breakdown of the family. They may grow up resentful of their loser father, which is an undesirable outcome for men.
One of men's greatest success is being able to spend a lifetime with their partner.
There is a cloud in "Zengguang Xianwen": "One day husband and wife, a hundred generations of marriage." Hundreds of generations of repairs come to cross the same boat, and thousands of generations of repairs come to sleep together. "Husbands and wives work together to cross the river of happiness like two people together.
A forward-thinking man will know how to see his wife as half his success. Successful men know how to progress with their wives instead of going it alone.
In order to move forward with his partner, a man should consult with his wife, show wisdom, and solve problems together.
Jointly managing wealth is also an important part of the relationship. Men should share wealth management responsibilities with their wives and create wealth together.
Men should be actively involved in child-rearing, care for the child's development with their wives, and share educational responsibilities.
Taking care of an elderly parent is a shared responsibility of husband and wife. Men actively participate in this process not only to establish a good family culture, but also to leave a way forward for their own retirement.
Li Ye, a poetess of the Tang Dynasty, once said: "There is no obstacle to the near and far, and the clear stream can be seen in depth." The sun and the moon are bright, and the husband and wife are deeply intimate and estranged. ”
Husband and wife are partners who protect the family together and care for each other.
When a man is successful, he should know that he often stands on top of his partner's support and care, and also lives in his partner's thoughts.
Husbands and wives need a balance of softness and rigidity, and only by complementing each other can they be invincible.
When a man is successful, he should also learn to care for the woman and hold up a protective umbrella for her.