1. Deliberately snub you
In socializing, everyone gathers together to chat;
He chats passionately with others, but as soon as you show up, he becomes cold.
In group socialization, they are enthusiastic about others, but they are very cold towards you;
This stark difference in attitudes speaks volumes;
When you hate someone, you will hang it on your face;
The other party looks down on you and doesn't want to talk to you more.
2. I won't respect you.
When others speak, he will give respect and listen carefully;
He always interrupts you when you are talking.
Moreover, the points you make, the advice you give are always ignored.
What does this mean?
Explain that the other party psychologically does not recognize you and looks down on you;
His subconscious mind thinks that it is impossible for a person like you to make any effective advice.
If you accept your suggestion, it is equivalent to lowering his status.
This is "people are soft-spoken".
3. It will encourage others to isolate you
What is isolation?
Isolation is the mental abuse of individuals by groups, mainly by means of exclusion, attack, and targeting.
Speaking of isolation, we have to mention the "herd effect".
Most of those who have been forced to join in isolating you do so as a last resort;
They don't have any grudges against you, but they have to isolate you together because of the presence of the leader.
Especially in some workplace environments, isolation often happens;
The core of isolation is to use the hands of others to carry out a kind of emotional abuse on you.
4. Be jealous of you
People who look down on you will also be jealous of you.
Isn't this concept a bit subversive of your previous cognition?
For example, there is a phrase that everyone has heard: "literati are light".
To put it bluntly, it is a "chain of literary contempt".
The elders of the circle look down on the younger generations;
The author of the best-selling book, looks down on those old stubborn.
To put it bluntly, isn't it still jealousy?
Although I am a veteran of the circle, my books do not sell well;
Although you don't have much qualifications, your book sells well.
So jealousy arises, and he behaves "very highly".
Behind the scenes, I secretly read your books, but tell others: I never read this kind of book.
5. Only treat you as a tool
When I use you, I will think of you as a person;
When I'm done using you, I'll forget about you.
He subconsciously thinks: you should serve him and pay for him; It is a favor for him to give you, and it is natural for you to give for him.
The unequal relationship between giving and taking, and the unequal position, is to look down on your performance.
When you are in trouble and want to ask him for help, you will find that he can hide faster than anyone else.
6. Accusation and denial
People who look down on you, whether it is the tone of their speech or the expression they have when they get along with you, are full of impatience.
Whatever you say, he will accuse you;
Whatever decision you make, he will deny you;
He always stands on a high position and looks down on you, and from the bottom of his heart, he doesn't treat you as an equal.
Spending time with people who are used to accusing you of negation can put you in a state of self-doubt.
No matter who the other person is, you should take the initiative to stay away and keep your distance.
The essence of socialization falls on oneself after all;
When you have the best value, everyone will care about you;
When you don't have anything, make the right suggestion, and no one will approve of you.
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