brushed up on a very interesting topic, and everyone chatted quite hilariousWhen a man marries a wife, does he have to marry what he loves or does he love himself?
Some people say that marrying a woman who loves you will make life much easier after marriage.
Some people also say that if they don't love it, why should they marry home?
There are also people who say that love is not the key, the key is to marry a suitable one.
Truth be told, everyone's experience is different, so the answers given will naturally be different.
The fate between men and women is a wonderful thing in itself
What will happen after marriage, in fact, no one can say for sure.
Therefore, it doesn't seem to make much sense to worry about which one is better to marry before getting married.
Just,Different choices correspond to different challenges.
Therefore, how to choose it depends on the actual situation.
1.Marry a woman you love and passively meet challenges.
First of all, a man who wants to marry a woman he loves may not be able to marry, after all, that woman may not like him, and may even hate him.
Taking a step back, even if a woman marries him for other reasons, the boy will still be very passive, and life after marriage will be full of challenges.
In this case, the most important thing for a man is to impress each other with his love and make the other party gradually moved.
Remember, don't blindly impress girls with various interests, because that kind of marriage will turn into a cooperation.
If there are too many rules and regulations, it will make the marriage lose its vitality, let alone cultivate love.
So, a man can marry a woman he loves
However, after marrying home, the process of pursuing a girl still has to go through again
What's more, it's going to be more difficult, and you can't afford to lose.
2.Marry a woman who loves you and take the initiative to adjust your mentality.
If, a guy marries a woman who loves him, then the situation is relatively easy.
Because the girl loves him, the initiative is in the hands of the boy.
In this case, if a boy wants to live a happier life after marriage, then he can only adjust his mentality.
To be honest, although the initiative is in the hands of boys, it is not so simple to adjust the mentality, after all, love is such a thing, it is really impossible to say that love is love.
Of course, it's okay not to love her, but at least you have to have a good feeling, only in this way will your married life be more comfortable.
Maybe the life of the two of them will be a little dull, but at least it can be regarded as a good start.
As for love, it can grow slowly in the ordinary.
3.Love is the foundation of marriage.
Unless it is an extreme case, the premise of marriage is that the two parties are happy.
Although it is said that a two-way marriage may not be able to be happy for a lifetime, at least the probability will be higher.
In real life, whether a woman marries a man she doesn't love, or a man marries a woman she doesn't love, life after marriage is generally not very good.
There have been some successful examples, but they are just one example.
Unless it is possessed by the European emperor, otherwise, it is recommended to fall in love honestly and then consider getting married.
Because, whether it is love or marriage, if two people are together, if the relationship is unbalanced, then after a long time, there will really be various contradictions.
Therefore, even if you meet on a blind date, you have to have a little foundation of love before thinking about marriage.
Actually,Although love is not very reliable, it is still somewhat useful.
Taking a step back, even if love disappears after marriage, there will be residual warmth.
Therefore, regardless of men and women, before getting married, they must consider reality and believe in love.
Finally, I want to say that,Marriage before love, love before marriage, in fact, you can,
The point is to have loving ......