At the age of seventeen, I entered the army early, which was not a new thing to enlist in the army at that time, and my family was very poor at that time.
My grandfather also asked for help from the cadres in the village, and I also enlisted in the army when I was able to go to the army.
In the army for a few years, the two of us took care of each other, overcame a lot of difficulties together, and we can say that the relationship is very deep when we grew up together.
We were in the army for a long time, I was taken seriously and promoted to the position of platoon commander, while Fa Xiao, who came with me, had to pack up and go home.
But who knew that he would think that this opportunity to be promoted should have been his, and I had taken it away, so he was angry with me, not only saying bad things about me in front of others, but also reporting my mistakes from time to time that I had not been caught before.
Eventually, my affair was revealed.
After leaving the army, my life changed dramatically, and it was because of his actions that I ushered in my opportunity.
When I was a child, I clearly remember that it was a very luxurious thing for my family to be able to eat a bite of white flour steamed buns, and I am afraid that only during the Chinese New Year can I squeeze out a few white flour steamed buns for the New Year.
At that time, I was poor because of my parents, my mother was married outside, and I didn't want to continue living with my father because I hated the poverty of the family, and my father was also very unmotivated.
Most of the reason why my mother left was because of my father, not because the family was poor, and many times it was my mother who worked, and it was my father who I saw lying in bed and resting every day.
My mother never wanted to live like this again, and my father had a big fight with my mother when she was drunk that day, and even started to do it, and my mother never came back after she left that day.
And my father woke up the next day and became silent, and he still didn't go out to work every day, and my grandmother and grandfather couldn't take care of it.
One day, my father suddenly wanted to go out to work, and at first he was able to come back once a year or two, and every time he came back, he would give his grandparents some money, but in the next few years, he went home less and less, and the money became less and less.
My grandparents' bodies were definitely unable to work to make money, let alone do heavy work, so the burden of the family seemed to be on me at that time.
But fortunately, my father gave me enough money to go to school, and I knew that going to school was the only opportunity to go out, but after my father came back, my family couldn't pay the tuition fees and I dropped out of school and returned home.
In the winter of 1974, the conscription came to our village, and being a soldier not only paid every month, but also a very good way out.
I told my grandfather that I wanted to be a soldier, but I was only 17 years old at the time, obviously not old enough to be a soldier, but my grandfather said it was fine.
I only remember that my grandfather went to the house and took out a bottle of wine that I had never seen before, which was probably a treasure that my grandfather had treasured for many years, and my grandfather didn't come back until midnight, and when he came back, he told me that you should just go for a medical check-up.
Many years later, I learned that my grandfather was carrying wine to find his little man, he was the village party secretary in our village, but my grandfather had a conflict with him many years ago, and he didn't talk for many years.
With the help of my grandfather, I successfully entered the army, and I was very happy that Li Hongquan also passed the physical examination and political examination to enter the army, because at least I was not alone in the army.
The children who grew up in the mountains seem to have a super long talent in endurance, and my hair and I have one of the best endurance in the company, and the platoon commander is amazed, thinking that we were from a practicing family before!
But he didn't expect that this was actually our daily life, when I was a child, I ran up and down the mountain and played that I didn't know how tired I was for a day, so I had that extraordinary endurance, and the platoon commander praised it well, saying that I was a good material to be a soldier.
It's not just that I'm always in front of him, but the platoon commander seems to have only noticed me, and when I look at the neglected Fa Xiao, his expression looks very solemn.
But I didn't think much about it at the time, and I was praised by the platoon commander in front of him, and now I think about it, wasn't what I said at that time a thorn in his heart.
A year later, we were transferred to a very remote place together, and the work turned out to be the work of the construction team, digging pits and digging every day to create an experimental environment for the construction of the research institute, and I didn't understand why the soldiers had to do such work.
At that time, I thought that it was the training given to us by the army, and I thought that such days might last for a few years, but I didn't expect that after a year of work, I was inexplicably transferred back.
It turned out that the comrades-in-arms who were assigned to this place with me at that time did not take their work seriously, and their attitudes were still very arrogant, and I didn't feel anything after living a hard life, but those who had never done farm work since childhood suffered very much.
This time, when I was transferred back, the platoon commander was waiting for me at the door, and the first thing he said when he saw me was "Good boy, I really didn't misunderstand you." ”
Since then, I have become closer and closer to the platoon commander, and he has become my mentor and friend in the unit, and soon I came into contact with the company commander under the introduction of the platoon commander, and became a communicator with the company commander.
That's when I was able to see my bright future at the most, because by the company commander's side, I had a lot of opportunities to meet the big people, and even if they didn't know me, it was very good to be familiar.
I was quickly promoted to the position of platoon commander, and I sat in the position of platoon commander in just four years, and I would have been happy to let my grandparents know about firecrackers.
I became a platoon commander that year, but my hair left the army and didn't even greet me when I left.
When I went home to visit my family, my grandmother was very excited to see me come back, but my grandfather was very serious, and I asked my grandmother what had happened.
I never thought that Li Hongquan would do such a thing to me!
After Li Hongquan left the army and returned home, he went around saying bad things about me, not only saying that I had violated the law and discipline in the army, but also that I was a coolie in the army, and that I had done something to hook up with women, which made my reputation in the village very stinky.
In addition to these, Li Hongquan even felt that I was stealing the limelight from him everywhere when he was in the army, and if it weren't for this, the position of platoon commander would have been his.
But in his mouth, it was me in the army who was sorry that he robbed him of the position of platoon commander.
When I learned this, I went to him in a rage, and along the way I could feel that the people in the village were not looking at me correctly, and when I came to his door, no matter how much I shouted, no one answered.
Gradually, I was surrounded by villagers who came to see the excitement, and I could only leave with my head down and angry.
During this period of visiting relatives, Li Hongquan deliberately avoided me, so I didn't look for it again, the rumors stopped at the wise, and I was not afraid of the shadow and did not want to argue with the villagers.
As for Li Hongquan, our relationship can only end here.
But I never thought that he would report me for "a man-woman relationship" like this!
At that time, because of a social activity with the university, I met several female college students who were fellow villagers with me, and we had a good relationship, and I would drive a transport truck to take them to the army to visit every holiday, but there was no cross-border behavior.
It was this incident that Li Hongquan reported, and after the above investigation, I did have close contact with them, and it was precisely because of this incident that I left the army.
It was impossible for the company commander to violate the rules for me, and since the incident had happened, I accepted it calmly, and the company commander also introduced me to a very good position.
Working in a production plant, the salary is really not low, I have been working here for a long time, here I also met a girl in the same workshop, the two of us fell in love at first sight.
That is, the first impression of two people to each other is very good, and they naturally become friends, and they often work together for a long time, and we naturally have feelings between us.
It didn't take long for the two of us to confirm our relationship and enter the palace of marriage, she gave birth to a daughter and a son for me, and the two of us also used our savings to buy a 120 or 30 square meter house here in Shanghai.
The life of the family is very warm, and I have worked all the way to the position of director, and it is quite good to be mixed into the position of director for more than ten years.
And when I was an employee, the salary was not low, and now I am alone in life, and the salary of the workshop director is fully enough for my rich life.
At that time, I made more money, so I thought about taking my wife's parents over to live together, and at that time, the house was not big enough, so I bought a small house of **ten square meters near our house for two elderly people to live in.
Because I have lacked the care of my parents since I was a child, I treat the two elderly people like biological parents, and now the housing prices in Shanghai can be imagined, and the price of these two houses is enough for us to live without food and clothing, and we are still living very rich.
If Li Hongquan hadn't reported me back then, I don't know if I would have had the happy life I have now.
I also want to thank him, if he hadn't reported me, maybe I wouldn't have met the wife who loves me so much, and I probably wouldn't have met the old lady who treats me like a son now.
Looking back now, I also thought that maybe he didn't report me now, I may have reached the position of company commander or regiment commander, but I cherish my life more now, rather than reminiscing about the past.