My aunt, a character who was supposed to be close to her in a kinship, became a source of chills and disappointment for me. All along, she has a cold attitude towards my family, and she is full of calculations towards me personally. And the ultimate trigger was that she chose to fall into the well for my family in my most difficult moment. All this made me decide to cut ties with her.
Recalling the childhood of a single-parent family, my aunt'sAffectionIt's so thin in my heart. During the family gathering, my aunt always gave more red envelopes to my uncle's children than mine, which made me deeply resentful. It wasn't until I was admitted to a major university that my aunt began to treat my family better. My smooth development made her blush, and she frequently praised me for my ability. I was even glad to get the 100,000 yuan she lent me, which touched me and made me determined to repay her.
However, it often takes time to reveal what people really are. When my father was unable to take care of himself due to a sudden cerebral thrombosis, the burden on my family increased instantly. At this time, my aunt's attitude began to become indifferent. She was afraid that I would not be able to repay the money I borrowed from her, and began to urge me to repay the previous loan. I borrowed money to make up the remaining 60,000 yuan, but she acted relieved, as if this was the caseAffectionWith the ** label, it is only worth 60,000 yuan.
This family strife makes me both sad and sad. My aunt used to be a good aunt in my eyes, but now she has become a scheming villain who only cares about her own interests. She cut off contact with me, and her cold words made me even more miserable. Do you have such relatives? Faced with such a situation, I chose to cut off my relationship with my aunt because I could not accept itAffectionand interest treatment.
in the familyAffectionIt was supposed to be unconditional, but my aunt's behavior made me rethink these relationships. I used to think that the saying "aunt and uncle, from generation to generation, break bones and connect tendons" is a universal truth, but in my own experience, it has become ridiculous. The relationship between relatives is not based on interests and calculations, but should support each other and grow together.
The end of this kinship with my aunt made me rightAffectionThere is a deeper thought. AffectionIt is a kind of responsibility and dedication, which requires the sincerity and dedication of both parties. However, whenAffectionDestroyed by interests, when kinship becomes no longer pure, should we choose to sever it?
For me, the severance with my aunt was out of helplessness, but it was also a choice to pursue spiritual freedom and health. When I needed help the most, my aunt chose profit and indifference, which chilled my heart. In the face of such people, I am not willing to remain related to them anymore.
AffectionIt should be a relationship of selfless dedication and mutual support, rather than ruthlessness and profit-driven. In our family, it is inevitable to encounter all kinds of kinship, some good and of course not so good.
It's important for us to recognizeAffectionMaintain a kind and compassionate heart, choose to resist bravely in the face of interests and indifference, and avoid being hurt. Everyone deserves to be filled with warmth and sincerityAffection, because it is the cornerstone of our growth and well-being.