Introduction: As the saying goes: "When people reach sixty, they don't hand over and don't touch", if you can do this, you will have no worries in your later life!
Immortality has been people's ultimate pursuit since ancient times, otherwise even the demons and monsters in myths and stories want to eat Tang monk meat to seek immortality, and now people are keen to eat various health products and health foods to delay aging. But everyone, whether they want to or not, has to face the day of old age. But how can we enjoy our old age in peace? The old man said"When people reach sixty, they don't pay or touch", if you can do this, you will have a worry-free life in your later years!
1. Two do not pay
Although the material conditions are relatively good now, medical care is relatively developed, and people are still relatively young when they reach the age of 60, we still have to listen to the advice of our ancestors and achieve "no two payments".
1. Don't speak
"Yan" means to speak, but not to speak does not mean not to speak, not to communicate with others, but to not argue with others.
Confucius said in the second chapter of the Analects of Confucius: "I am determined to learn five out of ten, stand at thirty, not be confused at forty, know the destiny of heaven at fifty, be obedient at sixty, and do what I want at seventy." It means that at the age of 30, you can stand on your own in the world, at the age of 40, you will not be confused, at the age of 50, you will understand what the destiny is, at the age of 60, you will be able to listen to different opinions, and at the age of 70, you can do whatever you want, and you will not exceed the rules.
When people are young, they are generally more competitive, they like to argue about right and wrong, and they have to judge the winner and loser in everything. But when people reach middle age, they must slowly restrain their temper, and when they reach the age of 60, they must listen more to other people's opinions, listen more and talk less, even if they hear words that are different from their own opinions, do not argue, especially do not argue with others. After all, even if you argue about a result, you can't get anything, and it is easy to cause physical discomfort, leading to health problems, and the gains outweigh the losses.
When people reach the age of 60, their physical functions have been going downhill, and various problems have begun to appear one after another, for the sake of good health, we must maintain a peaceful state of mind and emotional stability, try to avoid verbal disputes, and do not get angry because of this, after all, anger is to punish yourself for other people's mistakes, and your own happiness and health is the most important.
2. No profit
The hustle and bustle of the world is for profit, and the hustle and bustle of the world is for profit. The "profit" here has two meanings, one refers to fame and fortune, and the other refers to money.
When people reach the age of 60, they are already at the age of retirement, and they have generally retired from important positions, only to find that all the colleagues, classmates, and friends around them before are all passers-by in life, and they will eventually be wiped out. In fact, people are exchanging interests, and once they lose the bargaining chips for value exchange with others, they will lose many people. When you reach the age of 60, you should maintain a peaceful mind, look down on fame and fortune, spend more time with your family, and spend your old age happily.
People in the world are in a hurry, just for a few taels of broken silver, but a few taels of broken silver can relieve thousands of melancholy. People live for a lifetime, and what they work hard for is nothing more than earning money, because only after they have money can they ensure their daily life and expenses in their old age. Therefore, when people reach the age of 60, they have retired and have no ability to make money, so they must arrange for their pension money, do not invest easily, and it is best not to borrow money, after all, money in hand is the biggest pension capital and confidence.
Second, the two do not touch
When a person reaches the age of 60, he has experienced the ups and downs of the world, seen the warmth and coldness of people, and also knows the pros and cons of good and bad, and has also learned to exercise restraint, so the ancestors said that people should not touch each other when they reach 60.
1. Do not touch tobacco and alcohol
Smoking is harmful to health, and this does not need to be explained. When people reach the age of 60, all organs of the body are gradually aging, and smoking may not be much of a problem when they are young, but when they are older, they are prone to substantial damage. Therefore, for the sake of good health and family happiness, you must reduce smoking or quit smoking.
Wine culture has a long history in our country, and people are inseparable from wine when they meet for happy events, good gatherings of relatives and friends, and worship ancestors, but as the saying goes: drink less and enjoy pleasure. Therefore, you must drink alcohol in moderation and not in excess. According to research, a small amount of alcohol can relax the muscles and invigorate the blood, but long-term drinking can easily cause liver cirrhosis and other diseases. When people reach the age of 60, their metabolism slows down, and their ability to break down alcohol becomes worse and worse, so if you can, you don't drink alcohol.
2. Do not touch pornography, gambling and drugs
Sixty years old is already the age of sixties, many people have retired, and there is relatively more free time, at this time there are more ideas, many things are beginning to be curious, and things that have not been tried before are also beginning to be eager to try. If you make some friends with bad hobbies, then you may not be able to protect your later years.
The harm of pornography, gambling and drugs, we will not say much, once contaminated, it is possible to get a momentary pleasure, but it is easy to fall into the abyss of no return, not only the pension will be put in, but also the wife will be separated, the family will fall apart, and you will face the disaster of prison.
When a person reaches sixty, he must have concentration, take a long-term view, distinguish between right and wrong, and stay away from all traps and **.
Write at the end:
The road of life is full of thorns and bumps, after all, life is not as good as it should be. When you reach the age of 60, life will not be as you wish. And if you want to spend your old age in peace, then you must do subtraction in life and learn to refrain from it. The ancestors said"When people reach sixty, they don't hand over or touch".It is a piece of advice for life in old age. It reminds us to protect our health and learn to control our desires.
Life is short, I hope all the elderly can be happy and healthy, live a colorful life, live a good life, and enjoy their old age!