When it comes to marrying wives, what kind of wives do men want to marry?
In fact, it varies from person to person.
Some men simply look at women, virtuous but not virtuous; There are also some men who are women who pursue beauty. There are also some men, to see if they are excited, whether they are in love, and so on.
In fact, in addition to personal preferences, there are some necessary things that must be considered.
Because marrying a wife is a lifelong thing, the other party's character and character must inevitably withstand the trials and tribulations of the years.
Otherwise, if you are too short-sighted, your marriage is likely to be unstable. It will even make the marriage feel tormented.
01 Not vain.
In reality, what does a good wife look like? In fact, this standard must vary from person to person.
But if we say, a man marries a wife, never vain.
Then, after they get married, most of them will not have major problems with money.
Here's a counterexample. Some men marry wives who have to spend money every day, regardless of how much money they can earn. Buy whatever is expensive.
I bought a lot of clothes at home, and every one of them was very expensive. Then expensive fruits, expensive mobile phones, all have to be used.
There is no regard for the actual income of the family. It's a real headache.
Living with such a wife, I am afraid that there will be no less quarrels that break out because of spending money.
If you marry a wife who is not vain, you don't have to say anything, she naturally spends money, and she is very rational.
In reality, if a family marries a wife, they are very interested in famous brands. But her own family background is not thick and can't support it.
Then it is obvious that after marriage, the two parties will frequently break out in this regard.
I'm afraid it's going to be a hard time.
02 Be upright-minded and upright.
In reality, getting married and marrying a wife is not simply for the sake of prolonging offspring and living at home.
It's about getting along with another person for a long time.
Therefore, this person's mind must be decent. And he is very frank and open.
When you get along with this kind of person, you won't have internal friction, and your mood will be much more comfortable.
I'm afraid that some people are not upright, and they have a lot of thoughts, even very bad.
If such a person enters your house, you will be very tormented.
For example, in some families, after getting married, they find that the woman is very calculating.
A little money, but also to play tricks with the family. Not to mention the big aspect, it's really annoying.
When you fall in love, you have to carefully examine the other party to see if the other party is scheming and not decent?
If you meet this kind of person, it will be very troublesome after marriage.
03 This person's standard is not high.
In reality, when some people get married, they only consider whether the other party can do housework, make money, and have children.
Actually, it's just a functional consideration.
In reality, we can't live happily with a tool. It's about living with a living person.
Therefore, it is very important that this person, in your evaluation criteria, is not a good person.
For example, some people, although they seem, can do housework and have children. But her character, even if she is an ordinary friend, will feel like a burden.
So how can such people live together?
Also, the quality and thinking of this person are also very important.
All in all, if you want to find a good marriage of the opposite sex, you can't just think about functionality.
Instead, give yourself enough time to establish more comprehensive standards.
In this way, you can choose someone who is more suitable for you. Isn't it?