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Foreword: At the recording site of a program, a girl named Xiao Jingjing held the microphone and said to the camera: "I don't want to, because the only parents I identify are my adoptive parents and adoptive parents, I used to need my parents the most, they didn't show up, and the distance between the two families is not far at all, but they have never come to see me, and now they want to recognize me, it's impossible!" ”
Xiao Jingjing's words made her biological parents cry, and the people present thought that she was a little too indifferent, but Xiao Jingjing's words after that made everyone in the audience silent, and even wanted to cry, what's wrong? What is this going to look like?
ruthless abandonment".
It was winter that year, and on such a cold day, Xiao Jingjing, who was still a baby, should have been held tightly in her arms by her parents to keep warm, but the reality was that her biological parents packed her up in a cardboard box, and they had not yet covered a very heavy small quilt, so they were directly placed in a corner of the hospital.
That day, Xiao Chongyang's wife came to the hospital where Xiao Jingjing was abandoned because she was not feeling well, and when they were about to leave after seeing the doctor, they suddenly heard a very faint baby crying, and the couple found a cardboard box along the cry, and when they got closer, it turned out to be a baby girl.
They saw that the baby girl had been frozen purple, and the cry was already very weak, so they didn't think about anything, and directly picked up the baby girl and went to the hospital.
After Xiao Chongyang and his wife heard that there was nothing wrong with the child, they were completely relieved, and then Xiao Chongyang and his wife searched all around the hospital, and even the obstetrics and gynecology department also inquired, but they did not get any news from the parents of the baby girl. At this time, the people around saw it and said to the two of them: "Maybe her biological parents saw that she was a girl and threw her away." ”
This made Xiao Chongyang and his wife feel even more pitiful for the child, because they had been looking for no result, Xiao Chongyang decided to call the police and let the police help investigate, but at that time, there was no very advanced communication equipment, and the abandonment of the child often occurred, so the police could not immediately find the biological parents of the baby girl.
Xiao Chongyang and his wife saw that the baby girl was hungry and cold, and they couldn't find her biological parents for a while, so they took the child home first.
Xiao Chongyang is a veteran, after demobilization, he worked in a factory, and his income was okay, but because his wife's health has been poor, he often went to the hospital to see a doctor, so he didn't save much money, so the family's conditions were not rich, but he was still able to eat.
On the way back, Xiao Chongyang's wife has been holding the baby girl tightly, afraid that there will be more wind blowing the child again, after returning home, she immediately took out the only cotton clothes in the family and wrapped it on the baby girl's body, because there is no milk powder at home, and the milk powder is also expensive, so Xiao Chongyang's wife can only boil the millet into a paste, little by little to feed the baby girl, after feeding the child in her arms, give the child more temperature.
I don't know how long it took to warm up, the baby girl's condition improved, and the crying became a little stronger, and the couple was very happy.
More than half a month has passed unconsciously, and the baby girl has become more and more lively under the care of the couple, which is very attractive, and sometimes a single action makes the couple laugh.
But in addition to being happy, Xiao Chongyang did not forget to go to the police to inquire about the situation, but every time he didn't get any news, so he also asked a friend to ask around, but it was also in vain.
deep feelings".
Xiao Jingjing was abandoned in winter, and her biological parents directly put her in a box and abandoned her in the corner of the hospital, regardless of her life or death, but fortunately, Xiao Chongyang and his wife were finally found out, and after being examined by the doctor, they were taken back to their homes to take care of them, but Xiao Chongyang and his wife used all means to get no news of the baby's biological parents, so what should this child do?
It has been mentioned above that Xiao Chongyang's wife's health has not been good, so they have not been able to have a child when they are nearly forty years old, through this half a month of getting along, in fact, the couple has feelings for the baby girl, they are reluctant to baby girl, so after careful consideration, they decided to adopt this lovely baby girl.
After that, they went through a series of adoption procedures, and then officially adopted the baby girl, and named the baby girl "Xiao Jingjing", hoping that she would be able to shine like a star when she grows up. Being able to have a child made Xiao Chongyang and his wife very happy, they treated Xiao Jingjing as their own and did their best to give the child everything.
In this way, Xiao Jingjing grew up safely and healthily under the care of Xiao Chongyang and his wife, and this family became more lively because of her existence.
Xiao Chongyang is hardworking and capable, in order to make money to support his family and give his wife and children a better life, he does not let himself be idle after work every day, and will go to pedal a tricycle to make some extra money, but he is not too young, Xiao Chongyang's factory collapsed, he was forced to lay off, he has no job, the pressure is even greater, plus Xiao Jingjing is also in school, so Xiao Chongyang must have a new income**.
Xiao Jingjing is very sensible, when she knows that her father is afraid that he will be under too much pressure after being laid off, she will take the initiative to hug her father to comfort her, Xiao Chongyang finally had a smile on his face at this time, he looked at such a caring daughter, he was even more motivated, and he also told his daughter: "You are still young, just study hard, don't worry about anything else, what your mother and I want to see most is that you can be admitted to university in the future and get ahead." ”
Xiao Jingjing took these words to heart, which also became her motivation to study.
Xiao Chongyang finally found a job to carry gas canisters, this work is very hard, every day to move those gas canisters weighing dozens of pounds around, after a long time, Xiao Chongyang's shoulders will inevitably become red, Xiao Jingjing every time she sees her father working so hard, she feels very uncomfortable.
In order to reduce his father's burden, Xiao Jingjing would do some housework within her capacity after finishing her homework every day after school to help her father take care of her mother, which saved Xiao Chongyang a lot of heart.
Although Xiao Chongyang's family of three had a hard time, they were very happy and affectionate, and the family was full of warmth.
refusing to recognize each other" Xiao Chongyang and his wife regard Xiao Jingjing as their own and love her very much, and Xiao Jingjing is also very sensible, often helping his parents to do what they can, and the life of a family of three is very happy, but then Xiao Jingjing's biological parents suddenly came to the door and wanted to recognize their daughter, how would Xiao Jingjing choose?
Xiao Jingjing is very hard working in her studies, so her grades have always been among the best in school, and teachers and classmates are very optimistic about her, but when she was about to take the high school entrance examination, her mother was suddenly diagnosed with cancer, and after the examination, the doctor said that her mother only had half a year.
This is like a thunderbolt from the blue for Xiao Chongyang and Xiao Jingjing, it is always difficult to accept this reality, Xiao Jingjing's mother saw her daughter so sad and took her hand and said something, it turned out that her mother told her all her life experience, Xiao Jingjing was shocked after hearing it, but then she began to cry, she hugged her mother and said: "I am your biological daughter, you are my only parents." ”
When the mother heard her daughter's words, she couldn't help crying. Half a year later, her mother died, and Xiao Jingjing relied on her father for her life. Xiao Jingjing knew her parents' expectations of her, and after adjusting her condition, she caught up with her homework, and finally was admitted to the local key high school.
After reaching high school, Xiao Jingjing's grades were still at the top of the class, and in the end, she lived up to expectations, was admitted to university with excellent grades, and was later escorted to graduate school, and finally was admitted to a Canadian university to study for a doctorate, and won a full scholarship.
The successive good news over the years have made Xiao Chongyang very happy, seeing his daughter so good, he thinks that his hard work over the years has not been in vain. It turned out that Xiao Chongyang worked harder in order to provide for his daughter's education, moved gas canisters, went out to work at six o'clock every day, and was reluctant to come back until the middle of the night.
Due to the excessive heavy work all year round, Xiao Chongyang suffered from severe arthritis and high blood pressure, but Xiao Chongyang never told his daughter that he didn't want his daughter to be distracted by such a thing, and now he is very relieved to see his daughter so promising.
Just when everything was bitter, Xiao Jingjing's biological parents came over and said that they wanted to use 500,000 yuan to recognize Xiao Jingjing. Xiao Jingjing scoffed at this, and after Xiao Chongyang found out, he said to his daughter: "The choice is in your hands, you choose for yourself, and I will respect you." ”
At the scene of the China Dream Show, Xiao Jingjing was invited by her sister to come to the scene to cheer for her sister, this is her own sister, Xiao Jingjing can accept to recognize her sister, because he thinks that her sister is not at fault, but for her biological parents, she has never been able to accept it.
Xiao Jingjing's biological parents said that they abandoned Xiao Jingjing in the hospital because the family was really difficult, hoping that a kind person would adopt their daughter, and now that the conditions of the family are good, they want to recognize their daughter back and the family can be reunited.
Xiao Jingjing said that she would not accept this, in her heart, only Xiao Chongyang was her father and the only father.
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Reference: Encyclopedia: In 1987, the baby girl was discarded by her parents, and her adoptive father carried a gas canister for her to study for a doctorate, and her biological mother wanted to take 500,000 yuan to recognize her relatives.
Encyclopedia: Looking back at the girl who was abandoned 14 days after she was born, her adoptive father worked part-time to become a doctor, and her father took 500,000 yuan to recognize her relatives 24 years later.
Encyclopedia: In the winter of 87, the baby girl was abandoned, the adoptive father carried a gas canister for Dr. Cheng, and the biological parents wanted to take 500,000 yuan to recognize it.