There will always be many women who suffer from gains and losses in their relationships, and are afraid that men will leave them.
While adding to the annoyance, it does not inherently help the intimacy of the two people.
Instead of being overly anxious, take the time to figure out what men really want, what they really want.
When you can meet his three core needs, he will naturally be inseparable from you.
1. Emotional satisfaction
Marx said:"Emotions are a unique language that is able to convey our emotions and thoughts and make us more sincere and candid. ”
Emotions are an invisible force that has the ability to change the way we think and behave.
When men are sad, women give encouragement and comfort;
When a man is sick, a woman asks for warmth and takes care of her;
When a man succeeds, he turns into a little fan girl, cheers for him, and praises him without hesitation ......
In the seemingly insipid and inconspicuous small details, it invisibly provides emotional value for men, and also allows men to be emotionally satisfied, so that men like this woman more and more.
Not only women, but men need to have someone they can trust, confide in, and snuggle up to each other in their relationship.
If you can know how to listen to a man, understand his feelings, understand his needs, and give him a response, satisfy him emotionally, then. This man will only become more and more inseparable from you.
2. Career support
Before director Ang Lee became famous, he worked as a family cook at home for 6 years.
In the past 6 years, he has been constantly reading, watching films, and writing scripts every day.
And in the past 6 years, his wife Lin Huijia has been making money to support his family in order to allow him to devote himself to creation.
Whenever Ang Lee wanted to give up, she always encouraged Ang Lee, let him stick to his dreams, and let him have enough space and time to fully support his career.
It is precisely because of his wife's encouragement and support that Ang Lee succeeded.
For a man, career is his face, and it is the field he values the most.
If you can support and encourage him in his career, give the right advice and guidance at critical moments, and continue to provide him with wisdom and inspiration, he will not be able to do without you at all.
3. Spiritual resonance
Spiritual resonance is the foundation of any deep relationship.
When the communication between two people is smooth, two people can be at the same frequency, and each communication can make each other have new inspiration or experience.
Then these two people will most likely become partners, because their spiritual world is connected, they have a common goal, and they are attracted to each other.
Men tend to have a strong attraction when they meet women who resonate with them spiritually and emotionally. This attraction they can't resist.
The top woman in the eyes of men must be a woman who has a spiritual resonance with him.
Intimacy is written:
"Self-improvement first, then attraction, then management. ”
A wise woman never forces a man to obey herself, but knows how to improve her personality charm and spiritual charm, so that a man can not be separated from herself spiritually.
This kind of relationship will last longer and be more harmonious.
Emotional marriage