In 2014"Blind Date Will Win".On the show, a sophomore female student pointed out her declaration of love in front of the camera.
This wild remark has attracted a large number of heated discussions among netizens"Money worshippers".'s label was also attached to her body, and she became the object of ridicule after other people's tea.
Now that nine years have passed, at the age of 31, has she married the rich second generation as she wished?
This female college student's name is Zhou Lanjun, when she communicated with Hu Dan, the staff of the program team, her face revealed a childish and confident atmosphere.
Like her name, Hu Dan's first impression is elegant and gentleBut as she blurted out her wild words one by one, everyone's impression of her instantly changed
When Hu Dan asked her why it must be50 million, Zhou Lanjun revealed that she had made a special assessment before participating in the show.
The matchmaker told her that she could match a person worth 20 million on her own termsBut she herself thinks that 50 million may be more in line, which was also the mate selection criterion in her mind at that time.
So when it comes to his own conditions, Zhou Lanjun is so confident that he thinks that he can match a higher rich second generationMust be capable and right-matched, right?
However, this is not the case, Zhou Lanjun's family conditions are very ordinaryHis father was an engineer and his mother was a stay-at-home wife, and she herself is only a sophomore and has no relative earning power for the time being.
Looking at it this way, Zhou Lanjun's family is almost incompatible with the conditions of the rich second generationSo why is she so confident that she can marry the rich second generation?
In fact, the reason why Zhou Lanjun is so confident comes from her living environment, because she is an only daughter, she bears the heavy love of her parents alone, and although the family conditions are average, she also enjoys the treatment of a princess.
Zhou Lanjun, who grew up surrounded by love, no matter what aspect it isShe is extremely confident
She has always been at the top of her academic performance, and she often participates in various competitions and activities, and has won her own awards several times.
After going to college, she got a scholarship on her own, and Zhou Lanjun walked extremely smoothly on the whole road of growthBut in her sophomore year, the question about love made her suspicious.
At that time, the roommates in a dormitory had a love interestAnd almost all of their boyfriends are rich second generations, or the family is very good.
For Zhou Lanjun, who has never been in love, there will inevitably be a gap in her heart, after all, in her own opinionHis conditions are not bad in all aspects
Good grades, good looks, good temperament, everyone can find such a good object, then she must be able to, but how can she stay in school every day, how can she know these rich second generations.
It was also during this period that major blind date programs swept in, and watching the success of holding hands one by one, she also came up with the idea of going on a blind date.
In 2014, Zhou Lanjun was invited to "Blind Date to Win"., under the warm hospitality of the staff Hu Dan, he poured out his thoughts without reservation.
Hu Dan asked her if she had any special requirements other than being a rich second generation, and Zhou Lanjun said categorically, there was no specific,The goal is the rich second generation
In addition, she also emphasized that she may develop into stars in the futureAccording to her current level of excellence, if she is buried like this, she will be unwilling
In the face of Zhou Lanjun's "wild words", although the staff was shocked, they all chose to respect, after all, everyone's mate selection criteria are different.
Soon, the program team found four qualified men for Zhou Lanjun.
Before meeting the first one, Zhou Lanjun was full of expectations, she specially dressed up and learned relevant etiquette, but unfortunately the other party could not come to the scene because of temporary things.
So the program team invited the second rich second generation named "Pipiru", and while waiting, Zhou Lanjun subconsciously ate the fruit plate on the table.
Hu Dan reminded her that it might be better to wait for the other party to come before eating, Zhou Lanjun was puzzled and thought that it would be good to order a new plate at that time.
But in the staff's sentence "Do you pay?" After that, Zhou Lanjun chose to shut up.
When Pipiru arrived, the conversation between the two did not seem pleasant, and when they talked about each other's parents, Zhou Lanjun said bluntly:
"The other party's parents must have the ability to distinguish between right and wrong, and also have the quality of integrity, so I will be willing to call them parents. ”These words instantly made Pipiru pull down her face, and it was not certain that the two sides would succeed, so she made demands on her parents firstThis behavior really made Pipiru feel offended
But because he was recording the show, Pipiru did not turn his face, but asked Zhou Lanjun in turnWhy do you think that you will be favored by the rich second generation?
Beauty, good grades, great potential, good figureIt has become Zhou Lanjun's capital to find the rich second generation, but in everyone's opinion, she seems to be too confident, she is an adult, but her mind is not mature enough.
There is no doubt that the final blind date ended in failurePipiru also admitted frankly that if it weren't for the sake of the program team, he would have wanted to turn around and leave on the spot, enough to see her dissatisfaction with Zhou Lanjun.
Before the show was broadcast, Zhou Lanjun did not realize the harm caused by his wordsInstead, he is obsessed with "not marrying the second generation who is not rich".
But when the show was edited and released, Zhou Lanjun's talk exceeded her imaginationAt this time, netizens also stood on the united front and belittled Zhou Lanjun for nothing
Overnight, Zhou Lanjun's bold words spread rapidly on the Internet, and after her classmates recognized her, the ridicule of her was even more overwhelming.
At the same time, the program team also specially emphasizedThere is no script for the whole show, there is no arrangement, it is all Zhou Lanjun's personal ideas
After being ridiculed many times by netizens,Zhou Lanjun's life has changed dramaticallyThe eyes of the people around her became more and more strange.
During that time, she was constantly reading the comments of netizens, some understood her, some made her recognize herself, and some labeled her without saying a word.
In the end, she couldn't bear the huge **, and took the initiative to contact the program teamHe explained what he had said and apologized
Zhou Lanjun said that now he has a clear understanding of his own conditionsThere shouldn't be this reverie, and a person shouldn't be measured by money
But these explanations did not let Zhou Lanjun get rid of the abuse of netizens, but during that time she seemed to be silent and never spoke again.
It wasn't until two years later that she took an article"Newborn calves are not afraid of tigers - the stupidest thing I've ever done"., once again clarified his original outrageous words.
The article stated that the reason why she has always emphasized the rich second generation in the showIt was because the staff (Hu Dan) deliberately guided it, and even some of the words were edited by them
For example, when Hu Dan asked her if the family conditions were right, Zhou Lanjun said: "The right family is important, but there are always those who do not require this condition."
But what the show edited out was: Hu Dan asked: ".What do you think about the right door? Zhou Lanjun replied: ".My father is an employee of a state-owned enterprise, and my mother is a dormitory manager.
During this period, Hu Dan continued to encourage her to adhere to this idea, and also showed that doing so could make more rich second generations know Zhou Lanjun, and under the guidance of the other party step by step, Zhou Lanjun became more confident.
In the end, it also led to shocking remarks on the show.
Later, Zhou Lanjun also said on the show,If she hasn't found it after the age of 25, then she won't be looking for it, and she can work her own
But this passage was eventually cut by the show.
In addition, Zhou Lanjun also revealed that several male guests arranged by the program teamMost of them are not rich second generations
In fact, Zhou Lanjun, who was only in his early 20s at the time, was not surprised that he had such a "sweet dream".Most of them have fantasized about it, but everyone just thinks about it and doesn't express it.
This can be said to be that she is not confused when she is young and ignorant, and she is easily led astray by the love views of the people around her.
When everyone is talking about marrying the rich second generation, she has always been confident, and her values are slowly being distortedFortunately, she woke up in time and successfully established a set of her own values as she grew up.
Nearly 10 years have passed since the show was broadcastNow 31-year-old Zhou Lanjun is still not married, but at this time, she has long stopped worrying about love.
The criteria for choosing a mate are no longer the same as before, "just want to be on the same page as money".but can lead her forward and improve the quality of her life
Looking back now, Zhou Lanjun also faced his former self and said on social platforms:"I'm already very annoyed and ashamed, can I stop talking about the past?
It can be seen that the former Zhou Lanjun has grown up, and she has also let go of the past and will continue to improve herself in the future.
After graduating from university at that time, she chose to leave Zhejiang and returned to her hometown in Xiamen to start a businessToday, she is the founder of a technology company
has truly realized that she has relied on her own efforts to enrich herself, and now on her social platforms, she can sometimes see the daily life she shares.
When you are truly confident, you will become more and more beautifulAs for the marriage, leave it to the future.