Can't escape the reality of the problem, the women's dormitory will generally be more obvious than the boys' dormitory, when my sister went to college, she had a girl in the same dormitory from rural Guizhou, at first she was very inferior, and she didn't dare to speak too loudly.
My sister said that she didn't even have pajamas when she started sleeping, she never bought snacks, and other girls were facial cleansers, skin care products, etc., she just had a bottle of ordinary skin cream, a toothbrush and toothpaste, and nothing else.
Sometimes on weekends, everyone wants to go out to watch movies, eat, go shopping, etc., but she rarely goes out, and sometimes she is afraid that others will tell her to run to the school library early in the morning and stay all day.
Later, I learned that her mother was no longer there, her father was working outside, and her grandparents in their 70s took their younger siblings at home, she knew that it was not easy for her poor father to provide her with school, so she was unwilling to waste a penny, as long as she was not hungry or frozen in her heart, it was the greatest happiness.
Later, everyone knew about the situation at home, so they took special care of her, especially a classmate in the same dormitory was very generous, and went to buy her a set of pajamas, but she insisted on returning the money for the clothes to her classmates, she didn't want to owe anyone, very strong.
My sister said that the best things she had with her during the whole college period were the average family conditions, and she never went to get very close to those classmates with good family conditions, because other people's sets of cosmetics may be her living expenses for half a month, and there are not too many communication topics together.
It is said that after graduating from college, she returned to the local area and did not stay in the big city, because she always wanted to be closer to home to take care of her younger siblings.
In fact, many people will feel that they are inferior to others and inferior, in fact, sometimes they think too much, frame themselves to death, not necessarily how good your conditions are to get along with you, sometimes a person's personality charm is more precious than anything, self-confidence, humor and cheerfulness is the best talisman in life.
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