Dong Yuhui's great success is inseparable from his father. Today we're going to talk about his father.
Dong Yuhui's father was just an ordinary farmer in a ravine. But he has a characteristic, he loves to read, and he likes to read nutritious books such as literature, history, and philosophy.
His wife felt that he was not doing his job, but his love of reading affected the young Dong Yuhui.
The content of the conversation between their father and son is often in the book, outside the mountain. The father didn't let the mountains block his son's view.
Not only that, but this father values protecting his son's curiosity. One day, Dong Yuhui picked up a bird and went home. He did not reproach him like other fathers, but took care of the birds with him, until the birds grew up and released them together.
My father is still a very introspective person, and he has no quarrels with his neighbors since he was a child, and every time he has a misunderstanding with others, he says that it is his own problem.
Dong Yuhui said that his father never educated himself, but always guided himself. (Note that education will happen only if your child does not feel that you are educating him.) ）
Once, his father found a pack of cigarettes in Dong Yuhui's school bag. What did this great (allow me use that word) father do?
He didn't scold Dong Yuhui, but asked him: "Have you been under too much pressure recently?" This kind of inferior cigarette is not good for the body, and if you want to smoke it, you must smoke it better. ”
The next day, his father actually bought a pack of good cigarettes and handed them to him, but also reminded him: "Cigarettes are not good." This made Dong Yuhui, who just wanted to learn to smoke, never smoke again.
When he first graduated, Dong Yuhui chose two jobs: selling watches and selling cars. With his eloquence, no matter which one he chooses, he will definitely be able to do it well.
But his father asked him lightly: "Is there a more meaningful job?" After his father's allocation, Dong Yuhui gave up these two jobs and later went to New Oriental to become an English teacher.
Everyone knows the back story, Dong Yuhui transformed into a favorite anchor of Chinese.
Let's go back and see what this father was doing. He didn't put down his hoe and go home to sleep (though he could), but continued to work in the fields. His father told Dong Yuhui that he felt down-to-earth and proud of his agricultural work.
What kind of fairy father is this? I asked myself, can I do it? Can't do it. Should I give up then? Don't give up. We are to learn from his wisdom.
It's like I write articles every day now. My daughter sometimes sees me holding my phone and glares at me: "Dad is playing with his phone again!" ”
I held out my phone to her, "Daddy is writing essays, just like you are writing essays." Work hard to write good essays, and when you grow up, you can earn money by writing essays like your father. She was overjoyed.
As a father, I know that I can't cultivate "Dong Yuhui". But I can try to learn from Dong Yuhui and his son. Whenever I get closer to their father and son, my children and students should be closer to them.
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