He's a good guy, but can he do it?"I poured out my doubts to my friend Xiaohong.
Xiaohong looked at me seriously and said with a smile: "Do you know how to tell if a watermelon is ripe?"”
This sentence made me a little stunned. In my cognition, evaluating whether a boy is good or not seems to have little to do with choosing melons and fruits. However, I knew that Red wouldn't bring it up for no reason, so I nodded to indicate that I was listening.
Choosing melons and fruits requires you to observe with your eyes, touch them with your hands, and sometimes even knock them to be sure. "The same is true for determining whether a boy is good or not." ”
I began to reflect on his speech and demeanor, whether he respected me, whether he was willing to pay for me, and whether he had a plan for the future......These are like a mirror, reflecting his inner world. In these ways, I can get to know him more deeply, just like picking melons and fruits, and I can judge whether he is suitable for me through careful observation and actual contact.
Remember, a guy who is truly worthy of your love will make you feel at ease and comfortable, he will respect you, cherish you, be willing to pay for you, he will have a sense of responsibility, a plan, and will make you better. Xiaohong's words are still in her ears.
Looking back on my relationship with him, I found that he really respected me and was willing to pay for me. However, he doesn't seem to have any plans for the future and always lives in the present. This makes me a little worried, if he doesn't even plan for his own future, then how can he bring me a stable life
After much thought, I decided to have an in-depth conversation with him, and I wanted to know what he thinks about the future and whether he is willing to work hard for our future. If he understands my concerns and is willing to change, then I will choose to stay with him;On the other hand, if he can't accept my advice, or if he still has no plans for the future, then I may choose to leave.
I want to tell all my friends who have the same problem as me that it takes time and your wisdom to determine whether a boy can do it or not. Remember, love is not blind, but requires rational judgment and decision. Only in this way can we find the one who is really suitable for us.